does 8 mean that age really matters???
2007-01-26 17:30:48 · 35 answers · asked by franchiska 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey as long as you did it for his cash, why worry about it. But remember he was screwing women when you were not even a thought in your parents minds???? Hey, but if gramps treats you well, enjoy it before he croaks,,,
2007-01-26 17:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
Even though you both may have love for eachother, that isnt enough to make a relationship work.The age difference could be the cause depending on what you are arguing about.Time causes different experiences for someone older.He possibly has more an understanding of things than you do, even though this may be hard for you to accept.Some people that are 55 dont act like it those are the ones that are "young at heart , so to speak". There are many things you need to consider before making this your judgement of the relationship. Does he take the father role in your relationship?controlling?maybe he is looking at you as though you are too young to know any better.This would be hard to know unless you can explain what you are arguing about. Most relationships do have arguments over little things if you have been together for awhile.Try communicating this concern you have with him.Maybe then you can see how much maturity you both have. You may even find out you are the one who is more mature than him if you are willing to talk about your problems and work them out together. Relationships are about open communication no matter how old you are .
2007-02-03 13:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This can have something to do with age and then again maybe not. There are a lot of people that are in the same age group and argue all the time, so I wouldn't say its all about age. This tends to happen a lot if a person is stressed or worried too much about too many things so also take a look at the other thing that get you or your husband upset which makes you get upset over little issues.
2007-02-02 11:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by 2g4u 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your husband is old enough to be your father - in other words he's of a completely different generation. In 31 years you will be your husbands current age and he'll be either dead or 86 - which is pretty much dead. There is a saying that there is no fool like and old fool and that is pretty obvious here. WHy would you think that such a dramatic difference in age would work out in the first place.
2007-02-02 08:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by stupido#1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have married your father. Who am I to tell you about love. But there is a big age difference between the two of you. All couples argue over things that don't really matter "the little things" and sometimes bigger things. Age will cause problems if you let it but the older person in the relationship can think they have a better understanding of life because of their experiences. If you really love him then try to get eachother to see the others point of view.
2007-01-26 17:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am 35, my boyfriend is 57. We have lived together and arguing is just a common thing in relationships. It is not about age it is about what you both believe and value in life. I don't think your husband, at his age, is acting like a jerk, I am sure he is mature enough to deal with you. But the question is, are you mature enough to be in the situation that you are into now?
2007-02-03 05:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by brainyluscious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband and I argue about the little things and we do not have a huge age difference. When big things come up we put our heads together and think of a solution. I think that's the important thing. Who cares about the little stuff as long as you get through the big stuff "together".
2007-02-01 04:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by adondeesta1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Age does not matter, it is who you love but I guess all people fight in a marriage, maybe it is because they are from different generation and my husband and me are the same age and we fight like cats and dogs, this is the way things go in this world.
2007-02-03 15:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by may s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 24 and my husband is 50 we argue but everyone does. its not the age difference. talk to him often about everything sometimes ppl just don't understand each other. how long have u been married?
2007-02-03 15:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by i_love_coalminers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I do think 26 years older is a stretch. You will be a different points in your life and that could cause people to argue. He is old enough to be your father or have kids your age and you are at an age when you would start thinking about having kids, college, or your career. He's thinking about retireing. What does your mom think about this?
2007-01-26 17:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
have you heard the song.. age aint nothing but a number? if u both really care about each other age shouldnt matter but most likely it is because of that
2007-02-03 15:16:52 · answer #11 · answered by friends4eva423 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋