He started talking about wanting to smoke things, i don;t know what i didn't ask. And i am really concerned about it. I told him that if he did i would dump him. He got a little more serious but he kept telling me that i was to strict. I am really concerned what should i do?
2007-01-26 17:27:28 · 9 answers · asked by dex05luver 2 in Health ➔ Alternative Medicine
You don't state how long you have been together. If he is your boyfriend, you apparently don't know too much about him. Either way, you have to stand by your values. If you can't talk with him about something like this now, what makes you think you can talk to him about things that are more personal and serious later in the relationship. There's more to life . . and it starts with respect for yourself and that of those around you. If he is not mature enough to understand this, then you might want to move on.
2007-01-29 12:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by C S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him NOW! He will probably try and tell you nothing is wrong I only did a little. The next he will play you to make you feel guilty because you object. He definitely will do everything he can for you to be involved so you two can stay together. Don't fall for that. I would not allow him in my car and certainly would not him allow to pick you up. What ever is in that vehicle may become a drug charge against you.
2007-01-27 01:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by NJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to quit, don't start if he hasn't, or you dump him. I'm a "recovering" drug fella myself, I'm telling you, it won't be him anymore if he starts drugs,and he will eventually treat drugs more importantly than you. We're master manipulators when we're into all that stuff.
Don't let him convince you to back down from your position. Don't back down. I had 2 completely dysfunctional relationships thanks to my drug use, and my g/f's drug use in one of them as well. It is a nightmare.
You'll either wind up doing them with him, getting caught in the web (or just soberly dating a zombie if you're an exception), or you leave now, and get over it sooner.
You sound like a nice girl, being concerned, don't put yourself in a position to get hurt anymore than you have to be. Good luck! ;-)
2007-01-27 01:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by ajm48786 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your word or you will look like someone who can be run over. Drug addiction is very serious. Do you want to be with someone that you are constantly not trusting? Relationships are built upon trust and respect.
2007-01-30 14:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of yourself! He has his choices to make and you have yours. If he thinks you are too strict, maybe the two of you don't have the same values. You deserve to be with someone that has the same values you do.
2007-01-27 06:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by 8 dolphins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is taking alternative medication and you do not like it? Is this what I am hearing?
You did put this in alternative medicine.....If you do not understand nor want to understand alternative medicine he does not need you! The pharmaceutical companies love people who do not like alternative medicine......
If you put this in the wrong category, I would think you need to fix this...
2007-01-27 16:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand your ground. If you find out he is doing drugs leave him its not worth it.
2007-01-27 01:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Marijuana is good for you.
2007-01-27 16:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by vaporub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP
2007-01-27 01:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋