2007-01-26 16:52:14 · 9 answers · asked by Ronald C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Looking at porn online is not cheating
Imagining your wife with another guy turns you on, it's ok this is called fantasy and it's normal
This is what spices up your sex lives and keeps it from getting boring...maybe yopu should send your wife some "hot" stories, so she could get some ideas...etc...
But watch out, don't cross the line between fantasy and the real life
2007-01-26 17:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes its cheating. How would you feel if your wife went to a "fun site"? Fantasies never hurt anyone as long as it is a fantasy, and they either stay in your imagination or you and your wife discuss them accordingly. Imagining your wife with another man is not good, and I dont think she would be too happy if she knew.
2007-01-26 17:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kim T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looking is not cheating but imagining your wife with another man is weird. It seems you need to spend more "fun time" with your wife. Be creative.
2007-01-26 17:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by Christy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is considered cheating if your wife is looking at men on the sites. You need to find women to look at on the sites and see how she would like it. I know that I would not like it if my husband did that to me and I were to find out. I have a friend whose wife did that and met the man and my friend and his wife are now divorced and his ex is now married to the man that she met from the site.
2007-01-26 17:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not cheating persay. Cheating is actually the act of being dishonest. So, in a sense it is in that category. But our minds are wonderful, powerful tools. The fact that you ask this question tells me that either you feel it is wrong or your wife does.
Could it be that you simply get your adrenaline pumping when you think of your wife with someone else, thus this stimulates other areas?
I believe what someone is thinking in their own head with regard to sex is their own business, until they take it outside of their head.
2007-01-26 17:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's just say too much of this online sex fantasy chats or site seeing can be a problem if your not satisfying your mate. gets weird if your online and they are in the next room . Spend some time together instead. most men like to experiment why do you think there are more male doctors then female? lol
2007-01-26 17:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by bustnloose_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looking is not cheating.if you imagine you wife with someone else you should of thought longer before you married her
2007-01-26 16:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your fantasy doesn't go any farther it's OK
2007-01-26 17:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is cheating, it is wrong, it is creepy. Get some therapy fast, if you want your marriage to last.
2007-01-26 16:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋