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Question

There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but he's always telling me to text message him for trainer sessions, and i told him several times, I'm a broke college student, and I cannot afford them, but he's still asking me to told me to call him for this free session, so I asked him why was he offering me the free session, and he said because he does it for people he connect with so anyhow, I finally showed up for the damn session but I was late, so he's like when can you come in and I told him next friday and he's like why so
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cont) when I showed up for the session, he's pressing me about why can't I do the "Free session" tommorrow..he's like why does it have to be so long, and I 'm thinking damn this is a free session..so why are you pressing me so hard....and he sort of gave me the third degree about being late...he was questioning me about why I was late..and I told him traffic, and he's like okay you get a pass for that one..damn am I tripping or is he...

Now that I think about it ...there was another occasion where I was working out..and he came up to me ..asked me how I was doing..and I told him..fine but that I was tired and getting ready to go home...but then he was said..how come everytime I see you're going home..am I ruining your gym experiene...now that kinda blew me away

Okay.I know Iw as wrong for being late...but I apologized..and he kept telling me it's okay...I mean I did text message him letting him know I was running late

Answer 1

You don't seem very comfortable with his attention. If this is the case, you need to let a manager at the gym know what's going on. If you do like it, then let him know you're flattered by his attention and ask him if he wants to do something outside of the gym.

Answer 2

I suggest changing gyms. This guy seems a bit obsessed with you. If he was trying to hit on you that's one thing. His behavior suggests another. He seems to have laid claim to you and feels that you should be with him. You should probably switch gyms before things get out of hand.

Answer 3

one word
WEIRDO