we been together for 5 years and he has never had a sex drive is there some thing i can do to help him ?
2007-01-26 16:33:05 · 15 answers · asked by GEN-GEN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not sayin its not good when we do make love im just sayin it only about 2 a month i have a very high drive and yes there is a lot of things you can try and we have //its great when i get it just dont get it as much as i would like
2007-01-26 21:48:04 · update #1
He should see a doctor and see if there is something going on with his body...
2007-01-26 17:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I was married to a man for 9 years--when we were engaged the sex was great--I got preg on our honeymoon and after that we slept in separate beds--I was shocked when I got preg with our second son--sex was like maybe 2-3 times a year--I was 22 and he was 26 when we got married--we literally had sex maybe 2-3 times a year--We finally divorced after he said he wasn't attracted to me and we could live life raising our kids-but he just wasn't interested in sex--now I have no clue what the issue was if he was gay or whatever--I don't believe he had an affair or was seeing prostitutes-- I am cute and not over weight so most men will have sex with anything after awhile--sorry guys--but true--
You will never make him more interested in it--if You as woman need more leave or else find other ways to get what you need-but as a woman I love sex and the fact that a man "wants' me is a great feeling. Like I said I am div now--hard to find a special someone--but what is the difference if the one who have doesn't want you anyhow--I feel for you.
2007-01-27 00:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what his thing is. maybe he has some crazy fantasies that he doesnt think you'll be cool with...you gotta bring out the big guns! strip for him, roleplay, whatever. if all else fails, then seeing a doctor is probably the best answer
2007-01-27 00:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Exercise..
Weight Loss..
Porn..
Viagra...
2007-01-27 00:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Refrain from wearing clothes in the house. do house chores, cook, vaccuum...do everything in the raw. If that doesn't work, nothing will.
2007-01-27 00:42:54 · answer #5 · answered by Magic Mouse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him whats up??/maybe he's afraid of getting you preg. .... doesn't want to fully commit ...ask him nicely just curious honey whats wrong??then if he blows it off ...ask him nice ..when he wants something from you .... than ask him again this time seriously ....and tell him why you need it ...expose yourself and i bet he exposes himself.. talk about your fears ..maybe you'll get the answer .
2007-01-27 01:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
doctor might help them. i was with a girl for 2 years that didn't have one and i was miserable
2007-01-27 00:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by Rodger_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truly it sounds like he is on some kind of speed.....meth or strickly diet pills....he then doesn't want or need a damn thing about you....infact you will probably be impulsive to him.
Been there done that ! ! !
One day he will wake up and wish he never lost you....cuz you will definately leave him ! ! !
2007-01-27 00:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by bobkitten 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Give him some head, he'll rise to the occassion.
2007-01-27 00:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
striptease...
if he never had sex drive, what got you thru the first 5 years... feel sorry for ya... txt me. :)
2007-01-27 01:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by perfect_picasso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋