What do you do when you feel the need for another women?

Question

I love my wife but sometimes I feel really attacted to other women. Isn't this natural?

Answer 1

This is natural but as a married man you cannot do it...

Answer 2

I have to tell you, I've been the wife, and he felt the need for another woman. It's been 8 years and the pain is something that never goes away. The kids are the one who really pays for his wondering. Be careful. The pain last forever regardless if you go on with your life. My ex husband came back and said he was sorry. I can tell we still love each other, and he wishes that it had never happened, and that the kids had to go through a divorce and giving up their father in their home.

Answer 3

Yes, this is natural but that's when the words "committment," "self-control," "maturity," "love," come into play.

There will always be somebody you feel "attracted" to or you think you are. You have more than an attraction for your wife. There will always be temptation out there but you have to practice self-control. Eventually, if you really love your wife and think about the consequences if she finds out if you decide to act on the attraction, how that will affect your marriage.

Answer 4

I'm experiencing the same thing, but I don't cheat because in my life I've learned two very important things:

#1) Doing it will not be as satisfying as you think it will.

#2) Doing it will only make you want to do it more to get satisfaction, which ultimately there is none of.

Also consider that if you get a disease, you would probably end up giving it to your wife. You wouldn't want her to get sick because of you, right? Of course not, but that is one possibility. Do not fail. Do not lose to your passion. BUT:

Masturbate creatively! Use your imagination! Also, tell your wife that you aren't satisfied. Don't make it sound like it's her fault!!!!!Just tell her that you have the need to fantasize and ask her for help. If she does, hey that's great! If not, she is free to make that choice.

Try harder to make her feel good emotionally. Women's sex drive is largely linked to their emotional well being. Only when my wife is in a good mood will she ask me for sex.

Answer 5

some women are attractive, but you have to not cross the line. when you feel the need for a woman, go and hug and kiss your wife. she will like it and you will too. you will realize that reacting on your feelings for the other woman are not worth it.

Answer 6

you should have played the field for awhile before you married your wife,now your attraction days to other women are over unless you plan on getting divorced,then you'll break your wifes heart.when you asked your wife to marry you,your vows had in it forsaking all others and for you that meant other women, remember that.

Answer 7

when u say u love ur wife , that sounds like an oxymoron. now i know why men look at playboy there is just too much fantasy for them. maybe u need to spice up ur marriage quit trying to look for it in another woman that grass is burnt and used lol

Answer 8

Of course you r a man. Lol maybe you need to rekindle some sexy time with your wife. Married couples tend to loose that spark. Maybe that's why. So get to sparking!!

Answer 9

the grass is not greener! I read a funny birthday card that showed a really hot looking chick in a bikini, the card said on the front, "No matter how hot she is...."
inside the card it said, "There's always some poor guy, who is sick of putting up with her Sh**"
So if you have sex with another, you'll just have double the Sh**

Answer 10

Never Never go outside the marriage. You are asking for trouble. Just ask God for your answer