How do I get boys to notice me more???

Question

What should I do? Why is it so hard to find a guy to fall head over heels in love with???

Answer 1

1. be yourself
2. be nice
3. don't degrade yourself

Answer 2

Hi! They say that even if you don't know it, there's probably at least 1 or 2 people who secretly have a crush on you at any given time, so I'll bet there's someone noticing you that you haven't even thought of yet. Please don't follow the silly MEN's advice and show extra cleavage -- the only thing which will get noticed is your boobs, and that's not going to get you the "head over heels" kind of attention you want. You *NEVER* need to act cheap or slutty to attract the attention of a worthwile guy! Focus on making friends and meeting cool people, rather than finding one special person. The more you put yourself out there (but not "putting out!" haha), the more friends you're gonna make, and soon you'll have plenty of cool new people in your life of all types! (P.S. I liked the answers about going out and finding new interests or groups to socialize with. Girls who are busy with hobbies and interests are MUCH more fascinating!) Have fun, don't be shy, and you could connect with someone really great when you least expect it! Good luck!!! :)

Answer 3

One really can't "Plan" on being in love for often when we are most unaware is when it happens. Boys will notice when you always look your best and carry yourself with self confidence. The best way is to make sure you look good(not flowsy or cheap so always subtle on the makeup and not too much exposure of body parts) and look them straight in the eye for that shows you are at ease with yourself and others. -Confident. Also do not act overly enthusiastic , come on too strong for thats a sure way to scare away esp teen boys.Not too shy,hard to get either for opportunities are lost most often when playing a part. All thats needed is a look-yours-as you look your best get some teen fashion mags try some of the looks and then decide which is best,which what suits and brings out YOU.Always be Your OWN Individual for trying to be part of the in ones,the popular kids etc can get You Lost for just like everyone else. When that special someone does come you want to be noticed, you want to stand out from all the rest. I bet if you relax about it and NOT look so hard but just be at ease and enjoy the guys around at school, etc flirting a bit is ok and can be Fun and so is just casual dating and group activities maybe it will happen on its own---One Day.If you haven't yet fallen head over heels for a guy its because you haven't come across him -Yet. When Who knows. Could be tomorrow,next week or years from now. In the meantime enjoy,clebrate being you , young and alive.

Answer 4

First of all, you shouldn't have to do ANYTHING to make a guy notice you. Be yourself! Be confident! I'm pretty sure you're a beautiful young lady and in due time, you'll find that one guy who'll make you fall head over heels for him over and over again. And stop tryin to FIND a man, let him look for you!

Answer 5

BE YOURSELF. Don't go to bars, that goes nowhere. Dress nice, don't wear too much make up, and go out for dinner by yourself sometimes. Guys who notice a girl who is strong enough to dine alone is a big flag.....they like it. To fall head over heels in love, well, that takes time my girl.

Answer 6

Don't go by some of the answers on here (about cleavage and whatnot). Why would you want anyone to notice you just because of that?? You'd be attracting the wrong kind of attention, and/or for the wrong reasons. I have to tell you honestly -- you need to pray about things and wait on God and His timing and just give them over to God. :) Ask him to pick your husband for you, to reserve that one special man for you, and to gently guide you to that place of bringing you and he together. Other than that, I just say go out with friends for fun or even go out with a guy for a nice time (and you don't have to even call it a "date" - it just puts the pressure on - I mean, you'll know anyway very soon if he's the one for you anyway, so just go out and have a good time and enjoy some conversation) -- because you'll know that the right guy for you will come along soon enough anyway if you're praying on it and trusting the Lord :)). I know this may sound hokey, but trust me, I'm a Christian, I'm 28 and now married to my soulmate, and I've been there. You can't trust society. The only one you can trust is God, who created you, loves you, and therefore wants to show you the best plan He has for your life. :)

Answer 7

1. Whenever they look at you smile then look away back to what your doing
2. Tell them hi every time you walk past them
3. Gather up a friend have them walk by your side while walking down the hall at your school or something compliment the boy as you pass and pretend to giggle.

These will signify to the guy that you like him. I don't know what happens after that but if he knows you like him he might start liking you just because a girl likes him...or love, but love at first sight, that's pretty rare.

Answer 8

I'm going to assume that you are a teenager or very young adult, since you want 'boys' to notice you. I'm also going to assume that the people who have suggested that you 'put out' have no self esteem whatsoever. What you should do to get boys to notice you is to like yourself first. If you like yourself and respect yourself, everyone notices. Especially the people who are capable of liking and respecting you. And that's what you really want in your life, is people who genuinely like and respect you and are capale of loving you. Not a bunch of losers doing the fly by night thing.

Answer 9

This si going to sound really strange to you but it works. Just listen k? You should try not worrying about guys for 90 days. Just focus on yourself. You will be a lot happier, look better, and if your not worried about guys you will try new things. Get out there on your own. Just try it! I was watching a talk show and this one girl tried it. At first it was hard, but then she started to relize she was fine with out a guy. Once she improved herself and started to try new things, guys became more attracted to her. Isn't it the guy's job to come after you anyways?

Answer 10

Boys will notice you more when your self asteem is high the better you think you are the more appealing you are to others. Most people to want they already have they dont need it because 7they already have it , so if you seem eager for their attention eager to please like you need them then a lot of times they feel discontent and continue to pursue the unobtainable. The hunt is intriguing to most its human nature. So what im saying is focus on you and moving forward with your life so you are in a position where you can choose who you want and guys are trying to get you to notice them. I hope you are lucky enough to someday cross paths with someone who sees you for you and is secure and content enough with himself to be satisfied.

Answer 11

Make sure you act yourself. You are you. When you act like a different person and you got that guy because of your act you have to keep acting as that different person and that's going to be complicated. Most of the boys goes for girl's kind hearted smile because most of the time smile can be everything. I was like that. I always wanted to get boys attention. I always wore sth nice and i always smiled. Smile alot ok!

Hpe it helped!
ps. There will be a boy for you so dnt worry! everygurls are pretty lol!:D good luk!