Well, I have this friend. We are beginning to become best friends and I've noticed that every guy that I like, I find out that she likes the guy too. It's hard because, I've noticed the guy I like, always is attracted to my friend. It lowers my self-esteem and it hurts me. I don't know what to do. This already happened once, and I don't want it to happen again.
2007-01-26 16:25:03 · 10 answers · asked by Hello 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't want to ruin the friendship either. And I don't want competition over guys with my friend.
2007-01-26 16:29:32 · update #1
oops my mistake, it didnt happen once...it happened twice or maybe 3 times. o and when its just Me, my friend, & the guy i like hanging out, shes always making him laugh & just being herself...it seems like the guy likes her personality more than mine. even my bf broke up with me because of her(but she didnt like him anyways). o and she has bigger boobs than me....so yeah...:-(
2007-01-26 16:34:51 · update #2
Does she like them after you tell her that you like them? If so, she probably isn't your friend. If she tells you she likes them before you tell anyone, she might be a true friend, but I don't know. Tell her how you feel and that you would like to get some of the guys, too.
2007-01-26 16:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it only happened once it's not every guy you like!
Don't lose a good friend because guys are attracted to different types. I'm sure you're a beautiful girl, but either this girl is extra-fresh or is providing some type of enticement that you aren't. Recognize your strengths and maximize them.
However, if this girl is going after a guy you like, then you shouldn't consider her a friend, let alone your best friend. Get better at picking your friends!
2007-01-27 00:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Bryan's Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should except yourself for the person you are. Your friend is not a good friend if she knows that you like a guy and she start to like him anyway and it's not good that your boyfriend left you because of her. Guys not prefer a girl with big boobs over a girl with smaller is not someone that u should want to be with. Loki at it this way You friend is doing you a favor. When guys talk to u and than her that let you know that he is not someone that you want to be with. You should want someone that like =s you for you.
2007-01-27 00:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by starshunda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion i do not think u should be discussing this with people on the internet but u should sit down with this friend of yours. And tell her how u feel and u need to figure something out between the two of u so it does not happen agian.
I hope it goes good i wish u the best of luck
2007-01-27 00:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl100% 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds as if there is a little competeing going on, you need to find confidents in yourself, and if the guys are not interested in you need to say its there lost, because you know you are a good person. You also need to have a chit, chat with your sister girl and ask her why is she is always interested in the same guys you like. Good Luck
2007-01-27 00:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by Brezzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's because you always talks about the boy you like to your bestfriend
and from your story she get attracted to him too
just try not to talk anything else about the guy you like!!!
don't think like that!!
it's wrong!!
everybody gets something that can attract somebody
maybe that guy is not your soulmate?!
and someday you'll find your own soulmate?!
you nust believe that the day will come someday..........
just pray
2007-01-27 00:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Erika_shin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well according to me if u r looking for a guy for time pass & ur frnd also likes him..then no issues..afterall its just a time pass.but if u really like somone & serious abt him tel ur frnd very clearly abt ur likings...also if u both r best of frnz i think u should tell her ur insecurity related to her.& she will definetly understand & will never come bet u & ur boy !!!!
atleast i would do the same if i would be at her place !!! coz each relationship no matter wat survives on Understanding only !!!
2007-01-27 00:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by shweta - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with both of you liking a guy? I'm sure he'd be glad to date both of you...probably even at the same time.
2007-01-27 00:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by yogidog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he doesn't really pay attention to you don't worry about it because if he can see you for who you are than he doesn't deserve you or you time.don't stress out about it if she's any type of friend than she won't talk to him(relationship type "talk"). If she does talk to him than she's not your friend.
2007-01-27 01:02:17 · answer #9 · answered by lonnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u'll find a guy. dont let that lower ur self-esteem.
2007-01-27 00:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by criss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋