My job is boring at worst and tedious at best; I'm newly separated and reconciliation is no where on the horizon; my money is not right (and I don't even have a fantastic pair of shoes to show for it);I have no social life to speak of (when I was with my husband I was basically cut off from almost everyone); my children aren't doing well with the separation, and I'm tired all the time
2007-01-26 16:12:16 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Do something YOU enjoy, that usally helps me get my mind off things. i no how you feel but nothing just happens, you gotta do things for yourself.
2007-01-26 16:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by Guest... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang In There. Try to deal with things one at a time so you don't get overwhelmed.
Remember that things like this are only temporary and in time, the hard times will be over and you will have good times in your life.
This is how I approach these times, I have times when nothing is going right, and I just keep looking forward to the future when things are better, and just deal with things one at a time.
Good Luck to you
2007-01-26 16:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by David K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there's any way possible go see a Dr. You may need counseling or a prescription to help you thru this time. Your Dr. will know how to help, so do what he or she says. Do you go to church? Do you believe? If you like I will pray for you and your children. Church can be a great strength, and offers fun and learning for the children. Best wishes.
2007-01-26 16:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh that's just like me.Does your kids see their dad a lot?How bout spend time with him?How old are your kids?Well neway just have them see their twice or more times a week just to be used to the seperation.Also if they dont see their dad let them talk to him just so he can checc up on them, and they can see how he is doing.You need to not think about this situation because you will stress and not pay attention to your life.It will be harder for you as you go on but have faith and be strong.
2007-01-26 16:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by tflgal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find your local community centre to help you deal with your issues. Do not put it off. They have empathy for the single mother. I am a single unemployed lonely man and I cannot say the same for someone like myself.
2007-01-26 16:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I suggest you to look at the positive side...
and make one(just one) good friend who you can just talk to...
that helps me a lot
2007-01-26 16:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by NastyCat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a counsellor - you're depressed. And with good reason.
2007-01-26 16:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go buy the cd that have the song "don't worry, be happy" , and listen to it.
2007-01-26 16:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by mtudeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's a *****??
2007-01-26 16:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋