Okay here is the deal I have a male friend that is dating this girl he meet of the internet and found out is crazy. She always talks about killing herself and how she has nothing to live for and he tries to tell her everyday how she has so much to live for. Okay well he doesnt want to be with her anymore but he doesnt know how to break up with her. He told her he didnt want to be with her anymore and she said okay and then called back and told him that she told this girl that she knows that really kills people for a living to not come down and kill her cause she thought things were going to go better in her life so he was forced to stay with her. He has tried to tell her family but they dont care and now he doesnt know what to do. How does he get away from her without her killing herself.?
2007-01-26 15:42:12 · 5 answers · asked by sexy_sweetiespie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Also he told the girl he already had a girlfriend he told her that the day he told her he didnt want to be with her
2007-01-26 15:57:30 · update #1
if people want to kill themself, they will kill themself regardless of what anyone does or whether they have a boyfriend or not. he can't hold her hand for the rest of her life to make sure she doesnt. she's just acting up to keep him around, i mean srsly, she knows someone who kills ppl for a living? geez!
2007-01-26 15:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by bellatrix27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply. Call an ambulance & make a "mental hygene" arrest.You can do this annonymously if you want.Tell them that she says she wants to kill herself. All that means is that they will pick her up & take her for an evaluation & get her the help that she desperately needs,,whether it be counciling or meds or both..She will most likely be released that same day.If she continues to bother him,,get a restraining order by going to the police.Its very easy accually.Good luck.
2007-01-26 15:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her. If she calls and says she is going to kill her-self call 911 and tell the operator what is going on and that she has threatened to kill her-self. They will respond, if she is actually a danger to her-self they will help her, if she is bluffing she will not ever try that bluff with you. this also ensurers your friend has a record of what a nut she is.
2007-01-26 15:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by Robert D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the girl that your going out with him, and try to refer the psycho chick to a really good shrink. Maybee that will get her so mad, shell break up with him. I know it sounds terrible but she sounds like she needs help and he needs out.
2007-01-26 15:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jessi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though your friend has no control over what another person will do...if he is not her responsibility...she knows she has him by a string...and the ony one who can get him off the "guilt trip" is himself.
2007-01-26 15:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋