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IF you had a problem with someone, how would you retaliate,..explain in detail please,..thanks,..,

2007-01-26 15:31:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Psychology

26 answers

be more successful than that someone.. dont show that person that u'r a loser. show them that ur not hurt or down on what they've done on u.

2007-01-26 15:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by selena 2 · 0 1

Revenge is not worth it. Revenge is for simple minded people who don't know what else to do. Life is too short to want to get back at people or to hurt someone. Be a better person and let it pass no matter how bad or how much they have hurt you. Forgiveness is the key. Learn to be happy not vengeful and live a better life.
Spend your time living life.

2007-01-26 15:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by infiniteson 3 · 2 0

Revenge serves no purpose. A person might consider taking revenge on someone who has hurt them in any number of ways, but never follow through on it. It is better to apply that energy to something productive and beneficial to yourself. For example, write a story about revenge, or a riveting book. Don't waste anymore mental/emotional/physical energy on someone who hurt you. It's enough that they are out of your life, once and for all.

2007-01-26 15:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You don't retaliate............That's stooping to their level. You get over it and be happy, let them go and your feelings toward them. Being happy and having a fulfilling life will bother them more than anything. Good Luck!

Maybe seek counselling. The word revenge sounds evil as if you were violent. If thats a factor get help quick........ It's not worth it.

2007-01-26 15:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by Claire 3 · 1 0

The best revenge in your case may be living well, being happy, and ignoring whoever is bothering you. I am not into revenge. I believe if you send out positivity, it will come back to you. Although I'm far from perfect, I have been around enough to see friends end up imprisoned or worse over revenge. My friend, its not worth it. Be grateful and happy to be alive, and be productive and take care of yourself! Good Luck.

2007-01-26 15:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by Shane 2 · 5 0

well, revenge, hmm, I think if want to be mature about it I wouldnt stoop down to that level honestly, I would be honest & keep my dignity and tell truthfully how and why you were hurt, Does this person know they hurt you and the effects/ and WHY they did if they? perhaps you hurt them before and didnt reliaze it,
for me I go on, forgive them and wipe my feet off of those people sort of speak, just go on in life, Dont trust them again though, YOu be a better person ,
hope this helps and is understood correctly

2007-01-26 15:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I think best thing to do is to ignore. For me that´s the best way of revenge, just showing the other person that whatever they did it does not affect you. And that will also make them think before loosing their time trying again.

2007-01-26 15:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by Aleja 1 · 0 0

I would not. I would simply kill them with kindness or act as though they don't exist. In the end retaliation only hurts the one seeking it. Move on...for your own sake.

2007-01-26 15:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0 0

Forgive them. That's as detailed as it gets. It sounds simple but it really can be hard to forgive someone. However, it is the best thing you can do for yourself.

Think about that and do it and live with peace in your soul.

2007-01-26 16:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by Goldenrain 6 · 1 0

I would do unto others as they did to me.< the only true RETALIATION! But once I really wanted to sadistically torture a girl. I really had some deep hate for her. OOOH, in Middle school I poured animal scent on a girls clothes. SHE WAS REALLY MEAN!

2007-01-26 15:41:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Take my own sweet time seething and plotting...v e r y s l o w l y...and eventually, as time passes by, either that person becomes more mature or I do. Time heals, I learnt from that. It's not worth dirtying my own karma. lol Cheers.

2007-01-29 16:02:34 · answer #11 · answered by DonPiano 4 · 0 0

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