2007-01-26 15:30:52 · 16 answers · asked by myobsessionisyoualways 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wasn't there for my husband when his mother died because I was overseas tryng to close a business deal which required me to stay another 2 weeks.He can't move past the fact that I chose work over him and now wants me to cut back on work to work on our marriage or to get a divorce.I love my work and don't think what he's asking is fair.
2007-01-26 15:42:12 · update #1
I think you should keep working and leave your husband. It is obvious that your work is more important to you than he is. Oh and since he is rich you should let him keep his money since your work is going so well.
I've been following your questions for a couple days now , even the one you removed about not having a prenup and taking husband for a couple million. Where have you sacrificed ANYTHING? This question is really about your not sacrificing.
Why do you continue to post here looking for supportive answers? Does this mean you understand you are wrong here
and have some conscience?
2007-01-27 00:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 21:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by kornreich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your husband's point, but I can see your side too. Your family is more important than work, your family will be there for you no matter what happens, your job is where you make money. However, if you needed to be somewhere to keep your job to support your family then you need to do that. Your husband should understand that some things are beyond your control and in my opinion, if he clearly loved you, he shouldn't be giving you an ultimatum like that. Instead he should be letting you know of his feelings and you guys compromising and working things out. Good luck...
2007-01-26 15:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by glassflower 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's your husband.You should have been there even if it met your job.If you truly love him you wouldn't have had to even think about it.You would have come home for him.All of you workaholics need to learn that your job isn't everything.Jobs and money can be lost in an instant so can loved ones.The only difference is you can get a new job and make more money when we lose a loved one they are gone forever.Family is everything.
2007-01-28 03:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God just think about how your hubby felt when his mother died and he was alone. Did you even make it back for the funeral? He must have felt even worse than ever if he had to tell people that you were not attending because of your work.
2007-01-26 15:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is worth sacrificing alot for ... You should have been there for your husband during that hard time and you really need to stop putting work above your marriage. I feel that your husband is right here... You really need to work on your marriage or it will fall apart and ultimatley end up in divorce.... I feel you really need to do this for your relationship and marriage. Stop being selfish here hon... How would you feel if he put work and money above you and your marriage... Put yourself in his shoes.
2007-01-26 15:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I was with my fiance first and he's the only thing I care about. Everything I do, I do so we can be together. If it's selfish, I don't really care because I know what I want and i go after it.
2007-01-26 15:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer that question, but can say that my kids and my wife are worth sacrificing everything. And, I put the kids first in that equation.... read into that what you want.
2007-01-26 15:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by going_crazy_30m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. A life lived for one other person, rather than yourself, is an empty life. Your personal fulfillment should come first.
2007-01-26 15:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
put in a song,no no no no no oooooooo.i did the by thinking you have to do what ever you can for you husband but that got me no where.
2007-01-26 16:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by Meow4Moe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋