How many other girls love to be spanked but will never admit it?

Question

This would be very embarrasing if it wasn't the internet. I love it when my husband gives me a spanking. I am way too embarrassed to ever admit it to him. I make him think it's his idea, and even mildly resisit sometimes. I could never ask him to spank me, I'd be mortified to. The truth is, I wish he would give a spanking all the time, it's so erotic and such a turn on. It's the type of thing I never could talk about with my girl friends, I'm afaifd of what they would think. But I know many of them like it by subtle comments over the years, and I'm sure they know the same about me, but no one ever talks about it directly. So I wanted to see if most girls felt the same as I do, we really like getting spanked but could never admit it.

Answer 1

I love it and a few other things that are also considered taboo, anal and the like, but you're right about it being something that few women will admit to enjoying. Somebody is always there to say that we are sick or wrong because they feel differently and think everyone else should be the same as them. Those people drive me nuts. Good question and your not alone.

Answer 2

My guess is that your husband already knows, from your body language while you're being spanked and the passionate sex that follows, how much you enjoy it. And he probably also enjoys your pretend resistance as part of the game.

So perhaps you don't need to tell him outright - and to some extent it might even spoil the fun if you did. But you can always encourage him to spank you more by mild bratting, making sassy remarks, teasing him, or just by wearing bottom-hugging pants and bending over a lot when he's around. I bet he'll get the message.

And yes, lots of girls adore being lovingly spanked. Pluck up your courage and broach the subject with one or two of your girlfriends, the ones you suspect share your tastes. I guarantee you'll have some great conversations - and maybe you can swap ideas about how to get spanked more often....

Answer 3

I'm not a girl but can I give the opinion of a man who is into spanking. I think for a husband and a wife it is the ultimate in eroticism. It can however be considered a sign of spousal abuse. Be very careful when you are asking your hubby to spank you.

On the other hand if you want him to spank you more, then talk to him about it. You did a fine job telling us. Make him know how you feel. You are married and the key to good marriage is communication.

If you don't mind me asking, how does he take it when you "made him think it was his idea." Is he into Loving Domestic Discipline? If so then he may not spank you for any reason other than domestic discipline reasons.

In any case the only way is to talk to him about your desires. If he is as loving and caring as you indicate, then he will be receptive.

Answer 4

oh wow! I thought I was the only one. I love it when my husband is dirty to me, but I never ask him too because I get embarrased even though we've been together for 6 years! The only time I'm like that is when I'm drunk and that hasn't been for like 4 years! Don't feel alone, there are other women who feel the same as you, but are afraid or embarrassed to admit it. Let me know if you come up with a way of saying it without feeling stupid.

Answer 5

I love a good spanking...not being physically assulted like but a nice playful slap. Also, because of having a hairy ***(yea, i know), if a woman jus tickles her fingers around my cheeks and under the wee crevices of the cheek(not the ********) it sends me wild. The hairs make it more ticklier and sensitive.

I always make a point of being as open as possible with my girlfriends about all matters of a sexual nature and, although theres a time and a place, I would definitly advise men to really assure thier women to feel comfortable about being open sexually with them and talking about all of thier desires and pleasures without any shame. Otheriwse fellas, if you dont know what pleases your woman you will never be able to satisfy her completly.

Answer 6

Honey, I luv it and as you said, a lot of women luv. But I'm surprised that you are scared to admit this to your husband. Sweetie, this is the man that you are going to spend the rest of your life with. You guys should definitely be talking about this. Most men are not good at reading between the lines. Basically, if you let him know, he'll do it more.

Answer 7

There are thousands of spankophiles out there that like anything from playful smacks to a red and sore backside. You are far from alone, my dear. If you need a bit of courage to talk to him, perhaps you should look up some sites for adult consensual spanking and read up on what others are doing. I could give you several links if you're interested. (I obviously can't post them here because of content issues.)

Answer 8

I personally dun like getting spanked. Light patting maybe. Haha. anyway, if u're shy abt asking ur husband, maybe u could write a kinky note. Or play a little game by giving him multiple choice questions haha. Just a suggestion.

Answer 9

I like to get playful spankings, but not the real thing. When I am spanked for punishment, it hurts and I don't like it at all.

But you are not alone. Check out my website for more information (www.christiandomesticdiscipline.com). You might enjoy my fiction as well.

Answer 10

Oh, a good little tush warming is all I need to get everything going. I have always been embarrassed to admit it to any one I have ever been with..but, my BF now..He knew...and I never had to say anything else. He said he knew by my reaction when he did it. Truthfully your man may notice the same and is waiting for you to speak up cause he's to afraid to assume much. If you can't say it to him..write him a letter seriously. Sometimes ts easier to write something than to say it.