2007-01-26 15:19:26 · 22 answers · asked by james d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
By being her BEST friend - the person she confides in and comes to. With patience, she may see you differently. If you force it or push her or are not a true friend, however, you will get nowhere.
2007-01-26 15:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Enigma 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be the best friend you can be and show her by your undying friendship, that you are the best thing for her. You can tell her your feelings, but don't try to make a romantic relationship happen. Once she is aware of your feelings, and sees what a wonderful friend you are to her, if there is any chance at all that she could return your feelings, then she will appreciate your feelings for her and will return them. If she doesn't, then she only wants to remain friends. If that is the case, it's best to remain friends (one can never have too many friends), but find someone else who will love and appreciate you in the same way that you do them - there are plenty out there. Good luck.
2007-01-26 23:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I'm a 25 yr old GIRL... so I'll do my best here: there was this guy in HS when I was a freshman, who was madly in love w/ me...like the world revolved around me... and i just wanted to be friends... he pestered me and bought me stuff...which I have to be
honest, I liked... but it was like I felt if I accepted it I was obligated to be his girl... I loved hanging out with him so much, until he started that whole crush crap... then I wanted away! Do you know
that was in 1995, and this is 2007 and he still feels that way.... I've
moved on and had 2 children and everything... and all his life he consumed himself with how to win me over... I have to honestly admit the boy loved me, and that man @ 29 years old today still does... but there is nothing that will ever bring us together... BUT after oh... well in 2001 so 6 years later I wanted him, and we got together for a few months, but I ended up being pregnant w/ my previous long-term boyfriend already, and it was just too late... still today I can say we're friends, and if I went to him today he'd probably still go for it... but that's long gone history ya know?! So, I guess what I'm saying is if it's meant to be it will happen, so good luck
2007-01-26 23:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by drea_07_0601 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u let her see who u r and if she dont like it, tell her 2 go suck sumthing, j/k
I dont kno, it changes from girl to girl, were not all the same u kno
if she says she only wants 2 be ur friend, that means sumthing about u is a major turn off, or she has her eyes on other men, or mayb she just doesnt like men lol! im hilarious, but u never kno
good luck
2007-01-26 23:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by Nyci B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she have boyfriend? then forget her and move on. She's being polite. If she doesn't, it might not be a bad idea to move on anyway. You are ready for a relationship and she obviously isn't.
Believe me, women have a sixth sense about who is ready to committ to a relationship, you will be hunted down until cornered, and your life as you know it will be over.
2007-01-26 23:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her the truth, dont push her but say good bye. Dont ask for an aswer. But do ur best to disssapear from her life.
If this is meant to be, she will look for u after some while...even after years...
Try to move on.
2007-01-26 23:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can just be youself. If she still doesn't want you , move on. There are so many fish in the sea. I know that's hard to believe now, but it's true. You will meet many wonderful young ladies. Just be kind and be yourself.
2007-01-26 23:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by true blue 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well it depends on the girl. Get into what she is interested in and then talk about it with her. She will be suprised that you were in to the same thing as her. She may not like you like that but just be like oh ok kool and be buds then she will see you like her alot!!!!
2007-01-26 23:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
be a loyal and good friend, always be there for her and she will soon realise, it takes time for this to happen.
My husband did just that, until I got it through my thick head that he was THE one.11 years married and 4 kids later here we are.
2007-01-26 23:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by caz_v8 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you dont. you are only fooling your self, if she like you as a friend
then respect her decision. you will only be the one that hurt. time
to move on and win someone heart that really want you.
2007-01-26 23:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋