Friendship Problem??!!?

Question

I have this best friend named Julie and this annoying girl name agatha(julies friend) is like trying to take her away from me. Me and julie were talking and she comes up in front of me and say 'hey maybe you can come over this weekend'. I dont want to get mad at julie i want her to have her space but i cant help feeling jealous of their friendship. Should i let them be, fight back, or ect.

She got in my way to talt to julie is what i meant to say

I did try to become friends with agatha but apparently she soesnt like me to well

Answer 1

This is really hard because 1) you don't want to lose your best friend and 2) you don't want to seem to possessive either, so i suggest you wait it out for a bit and see what happens, if your friendship with Julie starts to get a little thin or drift apart too much then i would find some time where you and Julie can just talk and you can let her know whats on your mind, in a nice way of course. I think "fighting back" might just exacerbate the problem and may entirely ruin your friendship with Julie. Another option is to try and become friends with Agatha, it may not seem like she's the best of people right now because it seems as if shes trying to take your friend away, but who knows maybe you two would make awesome friends if you both gave it a try. Then you can be a threesome best friend bunch instead of a twosome

Answer 2

Let the situation between Julie and Agatha be. Don't play Agatha's game by trying to control Julie or who she likes the best. This is so childish(not your question but this Agatha's behavior) and sooner or later Julie is going to catch on to Agatha's controlling games and personality. Let her find out for herself and try to socialize in some new circles if Julie digs this Agatha gal.

Don't be jealous, none of this is a reflection on you. Don't stoop to Agatha's level.

Answer 3

Well, if your friend Julie agrees with you, I think it would be good for you two talk with Agatha. If this girl is annoying only you (as far as you know) sit down and talk to Julie, I'm sure she will understand you because she is your friend. The important thing is for you to try to talk, and if you do that, I think you will be just fine ;D

Answer 4

You should talk to Julie about it. And don't accuse her of anything, like treating Agatha better than you. I don't think she knows about how you feel about the other girl.

Maybe say, "You know, Julie. I don't really like it when Agatha just comes up to us and interrupts the conversations we have. It's rude and I feel like she's trying to pull you away from me. You're my best friend and I'd hate for that to happen."

Hopefully she'd understand if she really cherishes your friendship with her.

Don't argue with Agatha. That could create more problems.

Answer 5

Look at it as an opportunity to make a new friends. I used to HATE a girl I thought was coming between me and my best friend. Guess who is my best friend now? I had to suck it up and decide I wasn't going to let her make my life hard. No wonder my friend liked her too. She's great!

Answer 6

Look your friend is not something you can have ownership of....I know it is difficult to understand because you are yet young....but true friendships are free....If you get angry and jealous....you are going to cause yourself to lose what you are afraid of losing....I can't promise you she won't move on without you....but she will for sure if you push her in that direction....just keep being a good friend to her....and it will probably work out....good luck.

Answer 7

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