and also really love another girl which is me too? He says he also wants to have kids with me and have a daughter looks like me. Is it possible for a guy to really love 2 women at same time? He met his wife 1st and me later. He loves both.
2007-01-26 15:12:41 · 23 answers · asked by . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
do us all a favor and find your own man
2007-01-26 15:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you actually think he love you? You have fallen for the oldest trick in the book. Let me tell you this. If you or anyone for that matter begin to see two people at one time, feelings are going to grow, that's why you hear about people leaving their marriage to be with the 2nd person. You can't look at that wife like you use to. Even if you decide to stay in the marriage and keep the woman on the side, somebody is going to go lacking. Most likely it will be his wife and kids. Now that you know he is a married man and you choose to continue to see him, you will get what you dish out. That's karma. Why do you want to be with someone that have to hide you? Why don't you think more of yourself then that? He said that crap about a little girl, I bet if you had one, You would have to hide that baby too. It's not only impossible for him to love you both, but he have no respect for neither one of you. You shouldn't be a home recker. When you really find the man that you've fallen head over hills with, remember what you're doing to this family' with this jerk that is ''by the way'' will not let you and anybody else come between him and his wife. I feel sorry for the wife, She's sleeping with a punk, with the smell of his harlot on him and all she want to do is have a family. Ask him to leave his wife, see what he say and how many excuses he will come up with. Then ask yourself''Do I want to be somebody's whore''?
2007-01-26 15:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's absolutely possible. And then, when he's married to YOU he will most likely fall in love with someone else and leave YOU for HER. Men very rarely change their behavior. So if you want to marry a known cheater, don't be surprised when he cheats on you. At least you'll know what you're getting. And you have the knowledge that you helped break up a marriage. You guys deserve each other. Good luck to you.
2016-03-29 04:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by Irene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, take a lesson from a friend of mine, forget this guy. She's been seeing a married man for about a year now and he's made her these promises too (I love you, I want to be with you, etc.). The downside is he actually did get her pregnant. He's gone back to his wife too many times to count and leaving her heart broken every time. Now, they've got a baby to think about and the fact that he can't seem to leave his wife.
So, in these cases, can a man love two women at the same time? If you want my opinion, a man who will cheat on his wife - only loves himself. Find someone else. You deserve better!
2007-01-26 15:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't take second because you deserve first. A real man makes up his mind and stays with his wife. You are a good soul and deserve to have a relationship with no baggage. This is not healthy and basically he is saying he wants to get in there without a raincoat. Not worth all the troubles later. Don't sell yourself short if he caught you then there has to be a single man that can give all the benefits of a real relationship. Love is nice but trust is so much more. One day (if you stay with this man )you will think if you stay with this man(Is he cheating.) Karma is a b**** and she does take rain-checks. Give yourself a chance at something real not some loser who wants to try something new. Love yourself.
2007-01-26 15:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by fabulosity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to bring a child into this world with him?? Look at what example that will give it. While you are competing for his love your child will be too. And later down the road it will realize the circumstances it was created under and feel second rate to his legitimate children who came first. Teach your child some self respect. Dump this loser. How you know he wont do the same to you IF he were to leave his wife. How would you feel in the wife's position. If he talks **** about her how do you know everything he says is true?
2007-01-26 15:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by Cristina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anything is possible in the world. But it's more a matter whether you wanna share your man with another woman. if everyone in the relationship is okay with it, I don't see any problem. but since the man has 2 women, his time, energy, money, love, priority and etc are gonna split into half. will you be happy with that? would you like your children to accept that? it's you deciding and whether you wanna accept it regardless of whether it's possible for him to love both. maybe yes maybe no...but how about you? if you can accept all that, by all means go for it! if not, you have to make a choice: leaving and find another one! good luck with it!
2007-01-26 15:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by xyz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear, wake up. He is a MARRIED man who wants to have a fling and you are going along for the ride. And no, if he loves his family as he claims he would NOT be waving his you know what at you and telling you how he loves you too! This guy is taking you downtown and you are supplying the cab fare. My suspicion is he wants one thing and he has no intention of leaving wife number one. To pursue this relationship will end in heartache for YOU!
2007-01-26 15:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ive read some of these answers. They are pretty brutal. No, it is not possible for a man to love two women at the same time. Men will love one and despise the other. Or they will love one and hate the other. Or they will love one and use the other.
Hope this helps!!
2007-01-26 15:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a sister in the grave yard who lived that life and had two kids. She would tell you get out and get out now.Her death was caused by the relationship. She left two kids with out Mommy or Dad because he didn't wont anything to do with them after the death. Nor before for that matter. My mother raised thr kids. So believe the lie if you wont. But he's a Peace of ****.
2007-01-26 15:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by bittywrap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just using you for sex.
He loves his wife, he is telling you that..You really think he will leave her, if he loves her? NO...
Go find a man that isnt married....
Your getting used, and you should be ashamed of yourself, for sleeping with a married man..How long you gonna play the waiting game? He will never leave her, I mean, my gosh he is telling you that he loves her...Get the point?
He is telling you he wants kids with you, just to keep you hanging on, so you wil have sex with him...He is using you.
Dont be a homewrecker, go find a single guy..
2007-01-26 15:31:55 · answer #11 · answered by ~Annette~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋