I dont know what do do but cry.my fiance broke off are engage ment.. my grandma died. my friends are drama.. im so sick of being sad.. it really has not hit me that my grandma died.. i need a way to let go of my xs in my past my grandma and everything that has happened in mylife i need a new start. i need to be able to be happy again i been depressed everything is going down hill the last six months they say it gets better IT DOESNT!
2007-01-26 15:09:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
listen to hawthorne heights. thats what all the emos do when they have fake problems.
2007-01-26 15:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i know how depression feels. i have experienced it for about the past 10 or 11 years. i eventually i went and got some medication from my doctor and it has helped out some. i think what you need to try to do is 1. don't give you ex's anymore of your thought. they are not worth it and i can almost guarantee you that they are not worried about you. 2. try to get into some kind of counseling to help you with your grandma's passing. i know that it seems like nothing is ever going to get better and for a long time i have felt the same way. how i get by is taking things day by day and keeping my faith, hope, and love alive. that without a doubt is what keeps me going. you will find the right person for you. you just have to keep looking. good things come to those who wait. nothing can bring back your grandma but you can lessen the sorrow it has caused you by remembering the great things that your grandma did. i am not going to lie to you and say that by doing these things that the way you feel will change overnight because it won't but give it some time. it may not take you several years like it has me but it is certainly going to take a while. just keep your chin up and keep trying to be the best person that you can be. things happen for a reason even though we as people cannot figure out exactly what these reasons are. it is just one of life's many mysteries. keep hanging in there because eventually there will be light at the end of the tunnel for you. you just can't give up. hope this helps and good luck in the future.
2007-01-26 15:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get busy. Get involved. Make that new start today. If you have a job, look into what you can do to move up in your position and go for it. If you have a church then get involved with the youth group and volunteer. Look around your community for ways to make it better and areas that need attention. Then do something about it. Look into your area's schools and volunteer there. How about volunteering with Girl Scouts? Or Big Brothers/Big Sisters? If you love books what is going on at your local library? Get out there...you'll meet new people and learn new things and things will get better. Talk to your Doctor. Be honest and open with him/her and let him help you. You don't have to suffer...but you do need to put yourself out there. Good luck and best wishes.
2007-01-26 15:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you need to go out and have some fun. What do you really enjoy doing? What ever it is do it and do it now! Everything seems real bad right now but, things will get better. And yes it will take a while to get over these things but you need to do things to get your mind off everything. Good Luck! Hope things get better for you soon
2007-01-26 15:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've had in essence two deaths and it's going to be doubly hard to move on.
I would suggest you not try to rush this process....go on and be sad & cry & be depressed...give yourself a time limit...say another 2 months.
I would also suggest grief counseling or at least some therapy to help you see things more clearly.
Family and friends are a good support system but they love you...you need someone who can help you focus more clearly.
2007-01-26 15:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not the end of the world yet so just cheer up
grandma is in a better place lookin down at u and wishin
u the best
u will find a better boyfriend
friends can be a nightmare sometimes
just sit down and watch u a good comedy show
and cheer up and think positive and
read some proverbs from the bible for guidance.
2007-01-26 15:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a good time to talk to a therapist/counselor. Sometimes life can be overwhelming and it sounds like this is case for you. Things can and will get better. You will be a stronger person for the trials and tribulations you have had to face. Take courage in the knowledge that the pain will heal with time. In the meanwhile, it is okay to cry and feel sorry for yourself sometimes.
2007-01-26 15:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry honey. Just get busy and stay busy seriously that will help more than anything. Meet new people take some classes join a club pick up the guitar anything is better than siting around thinking about it.
2007-01-26 15:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by Andrew D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will get better, just don't go making it worse by trying to teach people lessons. They know what they did and they don't care so don't you go and hurt yourself in any way in spite or mourning. You grandma can still do alot for you, think about the last time you spoke....
2007-01-26 15:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by justinstrachan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry this all happened that is the worst!(no that's not the answer)
u should get two people u love and go on a vacation for more 2 days.
go to a mousses,salon,pamper yourself.
L.A.M.B(love,angel,music,baby)
2007-01-26 15:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to seek some help from a medical doctor or shrink and maybe get some medicine.
2007-01-26 15:14:02 · answer #11 · answered by Fletcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋