we have to shower and change right after P.E. and im nervous about it. Sometimes i get a half-erection from watching, but i dont feel gay. what should i do to prevent this in the showers (they are all in one big shower-room, so you can see everyone naked). I kind of just want to feel completely comfertable and just walk around completely naked,...should i? if not, then how should i walk to the shower? with a towel? hellpp
2007-01-26 14:51:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
The thought of anything sexual just gets me off easily and I got this confused with being gay which I now realize I wasn't. I had a similar experience to ur as a matter of fact the same but what I did was to condition my mind for what ever may come and I didn't get an erection as I thought the mind is a powerful thing. But if it comes to the point where u cant hold it back if the guys say anything tell em to bug off.
2007-01-26 15:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by HSM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you got a monster hog, you cant walk around naked. In the showers it is all cool. The unspoken rules of the shower are:1) never look at another man's hag; 2) face the shower head - you always know a spectator b/c the guy has his back to the head for like 15 minutes; 3) dont piss in there unless you know people are cool with it; 4) Never walk around the locker room naked unless you're really hung - and even then dont. If I dont have to see you naked, dont show me.
2007-01-26 15:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by Karter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the only person who will be worried about it. I would put money on the fact that the majority of boys in the changing rooms will also be erect or semi erect.
Ignore the other boys. Walk in with towel, shower and put your towel back round you. If you do get erect, so what? It shows that you are a normal healthy boy.
You are not gay. The majority of men and boys, whether gay or straight get erect at the sight of another penis.
2007-01-27 06:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of doubt you are being genuine. You sound like an older guy who is fishing for something. But if not, I would just say that almost everyone faces the same worries or fears that you are trying to process. So if all of the millions and millions of men throughout human history could handle this "problem," I have complete confidence in your ability to do the same. The sooner you learn to hold your head high and strut with pride, the easier these situations will be for you, whether in school or in the military or just at the gym or pool for the rest of your life.
2007-01-26 15:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by fall2005buseng 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It sounds like yer not gay. Just sounds like yer not used to the whole naked part of it. Kinda feels akward, doesn't it. Just think of something real disgusting. Like having to eat a dead rotting cat. That should get that half-erection to go away and get ur mind of things. Mainly its cause your worrying about it to much. Just chill.
2007-01-26 15:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this is probably your first boyfriend....? I don't know that for sure but if it is it's natural to be nervous a little because you don't know what to expect. Give it time you both will relax if your supposed to be together.
2016-05-24 04:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man, dude i just finished my first year of having to do that, but luckily im not very athletic, so i didnt need to shower, although i would have liked to.. but i had the excact same problom as u man, it sucks. like i wasnt embaressed of my size or anything (actually its bigger than anything a saw..lol) but like one thing that would have been super embarassing is that im un-circumcised but like i swear, everybody else in the class is circumcised..so. but,.. good luck just think about something totally off the subject and hopefully u wont get hard.. good luck
2007-01-26 16:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by tyler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do your thing and get out.It's no big deal
When I was in Jr.High until High school we had to shower also.
The very first time we did that it was awkward but after that it was no big deal.
The ones that got teased were the ones that covered up with a towel.
2007-01-27 02:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats gay dude!! j/k
just go in and think about something else, dont even pay any attention to other folks, and stay completely focused on your shower.....get in, get out
there is no way around it, unless you just go to your other classes stinky!!
you said you watch.....do not watch, don't try and compare, that would be really gay. stick to what i said, and you will be good to go!
2007-01-26 15:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by khjunior1980 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the half erection is probably from being uncomfortable
hey, it kinda makes you look bigger
2007-01-26 18:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by moon.boy2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋