There is a really big perv at my school and I don't know what to do. He looks down girls shirts and looks at their butts. It is really disturbing. Should I tell the principal about it or let it slide? I am thinking on changing that class right back to gym.
2007-01-26 14:26:59 · 38 answers · asked by Niki Jean 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Teaching
There is a pervert TEACHER at my school and he looks at all the girls with a sex face or something like that and he is really tall and every time he comes over to one of the girls he tries to look down their shirts if it is a low cut shirt. If it isn't a low cut shirt, he just looks at the shirt just to see the girls boobs and he looks at girls butts also. What should I do?
2007-01-27 13:38:20 · update #1
Talk to your school counselor and your parents.
2007-01-26 14:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let something like this go. You should tell the principal or a teacher immediately. If you're worried about confidentiality, just make sure to tell your confidant not to mention the source of the information when they are speaking to the boy in your class. If nothing else, leave a note on the principal's desk when they're out of the office.
2007-01-26 14:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by Kari Grace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing will change unless someone reports him. You may want to take a friend with you to talk to the principal or a trusted teacher. Two opinions are better than one.
Unfortunately, nothing can be done about the past. However you can alert the adults to the situation and have them help keep his behavior under control. The more adults who know the more eyes to keep watch over him.
2007-01-26 14:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sme thing is happein at my school especially with boys goin around and feelin up on girls and im gettin tired of it so i finally had my homebois kick there azz and they now know not 2 be sexual harrasment gurls but if it gets any worse u should tell da princapel but the would probably just suspend them 4 10 days then the boi will come make and start doin it again because its the boys hormones and they have eally horny mindz no affence
2007-01-26 14:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by AMY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez! It's not about boys hormones! It's about the personal choices they make! No one MAKES them look down girls shirts or at their butts - give me a break! If you think they can't help it, then you're giving them permission to whine and say 'I can't help it' when they date rape someone.
All of us have to take responsibility for our choices and actions - that includes you! Either you can report it to the appropriate people (eg principal, teacher, police) or you can feel uncomfortable about it. If you get 'the NO feeling' then that's your sixth sense giving you warning that this guy is trouble - and maybe not just for you but a lot of other women.
2007-01-26 14:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by cottagencountry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, well all guys look at butts and boobs. What are the girls wearing? If he is doing it obviously and offensively, he needs a warning. Tell him you don't like it. I know it takes a lot of guts BUT if you do that, then when you talk to the principal (which you should), you can say "I told the guy I didn't like it, but he wouldn't stop"- THAT'S harrassment. If he hasn't been warned, he can say "I didn't know".
2007-01-26 14:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a really MEAN look when he does that crap.
Yeah, I have some pervs at my high school, there's these dudes that are always constantly staring at girls' boobs and looking down their shirts as well and talking about their @$$ and stuff like that.
Don't tell your principal yet unless it gets more serious...make sure he doesn't touch you or else give him one big SLAP!!! =)
2007-01-26 14:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is sexual harassing you then you should tell someone right away. Other then that you can't really do anything to him because he just looks at the girls butts and their shirts if it's not you.
2007-01-26 14:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definately tell a teacher or a principal, it could become worse. If you can also, ask some girls that you know who he looks at if they feel uncomfortable and tell them to report him as well.
Most schools dont put up with things like that, it can lead to worse things!
2007-01-26 14:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by Marki 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should go to the principal. It's normal for boys to do that because of them growing up and their hormones but you could talk to the principal about it so he can talk to him and tell him it's not something good to do. Good luck!
2007-01-26 14:30:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't let something like that slide! thats gross and girls don't want guys looking down their shirts... looking at there butts can't really be stopped but the shirts thats gross! I think you should tell because thats totally wrong.
2007-01-26 14:30:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋