Seventh Grade Boy Trouble?

Question

WHen I started fifth grade their was this boy me and mybest friend Kandance really liked we will call him Bob. Anyway as I said we both liked him but it really was more of a fantasy he was real cute but umm how should I saw this, he was into more developed girls. fifth grade was over and I entered 6th grade My best friend "developed" rapidly and I was left behind but we remained friends meanwhile he began to flirt with her and eventually he asked her out but she decided that our friendship should go first and she turned him down.. Sixth grade went and he faded from our minds but once I entered seventh grade I caught up to her I now had some bust and he began to see intrest in me and he just asked me out. I told him that I needed to talk 2 my friend and she urged me to saw yes. But IDK I like him but I dont want him to break our friendship and it is a bit rude that he didnt show interest in us until we developed... I kinda need help here

Answer 1

Don't go out with him. If he is willing to go out with anyone just as long as they have boobs, he isn't the kind of guy you want to ruin your friendship over. You would go out for a week, then he would get bored, notice another girl and leave you behind. Also, in grade seven, dating someone doesn't really mean much at all. You hold hands and say you are dating. That's pretty much it. Wait until you are a little older and a little more mature.

Answer 2

Dont go out withim sry if i cant be any more helpful, bu thats all i can say. You're very right about that in your question though. that is abit rude. Friends are way more great...er Also, your friend set the example FOR you. She's urging you on because she wants you to do what you want, and not be influenced by her feelings (a very good friend will do that BTW) If youj take her advice, and but friendship first, you MAY find that it was for the better. If you wanna try it, c if it works out, then go ahead, it may be coincidence that he asked you at this exact moment, Whatever you do, you can at least know that your friend is backing up your descision. GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 3

Hate to break it to you but that's how boys/men are. It's human nature to want the "developed body"....It would be a little sick if they grew up and still wanted the little girl stuff... (think pedophile).

He's asking you out, if I remember correctly that automatically makes you BF/GF right? (when I was in 7th grade, that's what it meant: even if we never really "went out" anywhere...)

Just be smart. At this age his hormones are crazy and he's (along with all boys) only after 1 thing. Wait until you are older. You're only 12-13 you have the rest of your life to be and adult.

Live by the saying the boys have: "Bro's before Ho's" meaning freinds first. He's really not that into you, just your bod

Answer 4

Just to let you know, you are in seventh grade, you have plenty of time to get a boyfriend. I think you should let this boy go, he's only intrested in "developed girls" which means that he doesn't like you for you, he only likes you for your body! Forget about him, maybe try to become friends with your friend again. Never let boys get in the way of your friendship! Always remember that! Good Luck!

Answer 5

I think that u shouldnt go out with him. Its not good to go out with someone that you and ur friend likes....or used to like. It is rude that he wasnt interested in both u guys until u both showed development. It shows that he goes for looks and not personality....ive been n that situation before....and everything turned out so badly and i learned a lesson from it. Be smart like ur friend! Please make the right choice and dont let n e one come n between ur friendship with ur friend....im here if u ever wanna talk. Good Luck!

Answer 6

Rember Chicks before *****

Answer 7

All boys like boobs...this will never change. I was flat chested until high school and I made it a point to never date boys who didn't pay any attention to me when I was "flat". I choose boys that I could tell were genuinely interested in me. This "Bob" sounds like a "player" and will probably move on after he gets what he wants from you.

Answer 8

This kid named Bob sounds like a comlete idiot and a pervert. You should say no because your friend said no for you and you should be her friend and say no. Also Bob has wierd interests and needs some counseling. He obviously doesn't like you for who you are he justs like you cause you are developed.
~ Kristin ♥

Answer 9

Agreed with Trent. Your young, life is long. Don't worry about dating at like 12. B.

Answer 10

i only have 3 things 2 say:
1-all guys r like that
2-ur friend did say it waz ok
3-ur to freakin young