my husband and i are seperated and we just began trying to rebuild our relationship. I am almost 9 months pregnant and had to go to the hospital today for false layber signs. He would have been there but i told him to stay at work till i new for sure if this was it or not. so.. i texted my husband "i love you" and he replied with "I know you do!" and that was it. should i feel terrible he didn't say it back, why do you think he replied that way?
2007-01-26 13:45:12 · 35 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well if you are seperated he may be having trouble saying those words just yet.Give him time we do not know the reason you 2 are seperated but it has to do with infidelity or something it will take awhile till he can say that to you.Good Luck and congradulations on the baby.
2007-01-26 13:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not sure why he replied with those words. But since he said those words, they probably still mean something to him. There is nothing wrong with that, don't make it a big deal about it. If he told you before that he loved you, maybe he just thought about saying something else. Doesn't mean that he doesn't love you because he didn't the words you wanted to hear.
Just thank God that he is your husband and was willing to work out your marriage together. Work your marriage, stop looking for faults in him. He is trying.
I would consider on reading, "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" and "The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage". Those are two great books that will help in your marriage.
Congrats with your new baby!
2007-01-26 13:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time. I liked replying with 'I know you do" as well, that was when i wasn't sure if I loved him back or not. It's best if you guys are trying again for him to say it to you when he's ready. If you rush it and force him to do it, it won't be real, then you'll never know if he really does love you back or not. Just be open and honest, and don't stay together just because of the baby.
Good luck
2007-01-26 13:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't read anything bad into that. You are rebuilding your relationship. Just keep telling him you love him and when the baby comes I have a feeling he'll be by your side. He may be hesitatant about saying I love you since you are trying to reconsile. Hang in there and I wish you thie best.
2007-01-26 14:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sheena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was just busy at work or in a rush. Men are not always smart like that lol, sometimes we don't think that the right thing to do would be to say "I love you" back.
But if it really bothers you, just ask him. I'm sure it's not a big deal. Don't ask us, ask HIM. If you want your relationship to work out again, you need to talk with him about these things. Relationships need communication.
2007-01-26 13:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ego!!! he know that you and him are working to rebuild the relationship and he wants you to sweat him a little bit. then on the other hand he may have been just saying that because he knows you really do love him. who knows, if i were you i would ask him in a nice way and see what he says.
2007-01-26 13:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by ken's princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He responded that way because he doesn't love you anymore. But don't worry, love in marriage (and divorce) is irrelevant. Like Tina Turner said:"What's love got to do, got to do with it?" What matters is the CA$H, and hopefully he has a lot so that when you get divorced both you and you're child can live comfortably. Good luck!
2007-01-26 13:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that is a tough one not knowing all the details of why you split up and who told who to get out. etc. But he either does not want to say that until he sees how things work out, or maybe he does not feel that way any more.I think you should ask him. I know if that were me and in your condition that would have hurt.
2007-01-26 13:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it is okay for woman to say it because they know exactly what they feel inside. Don't look at it as a bad thing but just know that he will be cheating you if he just say it and not mean it. Start looking at his actions and she if he already have all those feeling back for you.
2007-01-26 13:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by TMAC 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You stated you loved him. Your expectations of someone other than you are always too high. You stated your feelings, and did not ask him his. If you want to know if he loves you, ask him. But be prepared for the I don't know response. When you are mad or fet up with someone, namely your husband you can feel like you dont love them, however, deep down you do, your just mad and feelings are distorted.
2007-01-26 13:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by alwaysloved4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋