I'm remarried to my kids dad but when we were split up I dated this guy who I am very attracted to. Everything was good between us. I still think of him and miss him. My current husband that I left 2 1/2 yrs ago for some emotional abuse meaning, he behind my back would watch porn which made me feel unattractive well i was pregnant. It took him 6 years to finally say it was because i didn't show him anything! I regained my self esteem after many hours of counseling. One day when i came home i had seen that he tried to download a porn after we remarried and prior to this i told him i wanted him to be honest with me about everything. When i confronted him he denied it. I told him to finally grow some scrotum and tell me the truth! Now I've lost some of my self esteem n i feel our relationship is back to where it was before i left him. Please help me!!
2007-01-26 13:40:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anna e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not you.....some people are just addicted to porn. I strongly suggest you ask your husband to attend some kind of counseling. There is such a thing as a porn addiction and there are special meetings for it, like AA for alcoholics. He's blaming you because he's too ashamed of himself to admit that it's his problem, NOT yours. That's what addicts do, they lay the blame on everyone but themselves. And as long as he's doing this, and not get the help he needs, he'll never "grow some scrotum" and tell you the truth. You are not the one who needs to be in counseling.....HE is. Don't let this man bring you down hun, you are stronger than that! If he refuses to go to counseling, and get the help he needs, you should end the relationship for good. You gave him a second chance, that's all you can do. Good luck to you sweetie, I hope things work out for you.
2007-01-26 15:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by ksgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cant respect you maybe you should leave him alone.You deserve better.
2007-01-26 14:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋