2007-01-26 13:36:41 · 9 answers · asked by sillymorg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Start focusing on his needs more then on yours..... Treat him the way that you would want him to treat you. You may need help or counseling for this too.
2007-01-26 13:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little bit of selfishness is ok, it is when you think of nothing or anybody but yourself that the problems arise. Just remember to each put the other first in things. That way somebody always has your back and your best interests at heart and you don't have to be so aware of it yourself.
2007-01-26 14:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might want to try marriage counseling.Try to be the best person you can be but I would imagine if thats the way you are now it may be hard for you to change.But there is allways hope if your selfishness is hurting your marriage andy you really want it to work then you should work really hard on changing it.Good Luck
2007-01-26 13:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this is a 'mind set'. You are on your way just by asking the question. Make 'him' the priority by setting goals for yourself. In your conversations how many times do you say "I" ? Just by being mindful of what you say and do, catching yourself, and then working on it, is a good start. It is like a bad habit. It will just take determination and practice to change. You can do it! Good luck. Put love notes for him on the pillow or on a sticky tab on the mirror for him to see when he gets up in the morning...plan to do something that just 'he' loves to do--participate in it or get him tickets for it. Prepare his favorite dinner. Incorporate these things into your marriage and you will be well on your way!
2007-01-26 14:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by Nisey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put God in your life first and He will mold you like the clay in the potter's hands. You will become less selfish and self-centered.
Check out www.marriagetoday.org for wonderful insights into making your marriage work.
2007-01-26 13:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If compelled to head with on, i ought to % self-regular. Being fullyyt self-much less leads to an entire lot of misery. I comprehend first hand. whether neither end of the scope is peaches and cream. whether, a minimum of if i used to be self-regular, my demands must be getting met.
2016-11-27 21:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a start, when you asked the question.
2007-01-26 13:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me know when you find out.
2007-01-26 13:46:17 · answer #8 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start small, do little things first- they are very much appreciated and easy to do.
2007-01-26 14:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by sad girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋