I have a friend and ive known her forever she always puts me down and makes me feel like im nothing at all to n e one. I no i am caz if i wasnt i wouldnt have very many friends and i have LOTS! ive told my friend it bothers me when she puts me down about the guys im crushing on, she stops for a week but then keeps it up after, I NEED HELP
2007-01-26 13:32:09 · 22 answers · asked by aly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to stop talking to her! She is not your friend at all! friends dont put each other down! They pick you up when you are down, big differnce!
2007-01-26 13:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does not sound like a friend to me. A friend supports you, does not say anything that would hurt you...including putting down your choices in guys. She sound jealous...and tries to do this to keep you as her friend...which is lousy. Maybe she also has problems of insecurity. You need to tell her very firm...and that you mean it this time for real that if she does not stop then you dont want to be around her. If she continues...do it...put some time and space in between the two of you..so she can think of how she is.
2007-01-26 13:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all about positive energy... as you should be too! Just tell her if she has nothing positive to say... you don't have to be her friend. Friendships are privilages... and friends should lift your spirits, not drag you down, and kick you in the back!
Be glad you ave LOTS of friends... this one will either learn to treat you better.. or lose a lifetime friend!
Truly,
ElleXiZ
2007-01-26 13:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Ellexiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having friend problems too. My friend likes to put me AND my sister down, like on new years, she emberrased me infront of this guy that i talk to, and then kicked me full force in the butt at C.V.S, and emberassed me really bad. We are supposed to go to disneyland tomorrow, but she always stands me up! If you want, gimmie an email (on my page) and we can talk from there, we are going through the same stuff.
2007-01-26 13:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like a friend. Friends should lift you up, not bring you down!
2007-01-26 13:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Lady J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's not youre friend! just because you've known her for a long time doesn't mean that u have to still be her friend. U have lots of friends right? forget about her.
2007-01-26 14:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by monkey#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, that is soooooo weird, that just happened to me last month, and I told her that I tried to give her more chances, but she wouldn't improve, so I told her I didn't want to be friends with her anymore.
but you wanna know what I hate, is now she is going around telling everybody the exact opposite, saying that I made up rumors about her, and I made fun of her, and know all my friends are starting to treat me differently, so just be careful.....hopefully she isn't like my old friend.......hope this helps!
2007-01-26 13:40:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello what planet are you from this chic is no friend get rid of her she is inconciderate and nieve best friends come in small packages but they also are there to confide in and they have respect for you this chic youre talking about is a total loser quit talking to her
2007-01-26 13:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyessly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are supposed to support you and make you feel better about yourself. She is not your friend and I would dump her if I were you.
2007-01-26 13:37:58 · answer #9 · answered by Mlly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not a friend. tell her u dont appreciate it tell her after she forgets do that three times and say if u do this three times i will cut off ties wiht u for 2 weeks. then if she doesnt do that dont call ehr dont answer her calls or say hello jsut lose complete contact unless she says srry!
2007-01-26 13:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by watev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋