i have a boyfriend right now,but i seem to like my bestfriends cuzin.i cant get her out of my mind,she's all i think about!help me!am i a lesbian?what am i gonna do?!
2007-01-26 13:30:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, You should first ask yourself are you in love with her, and than if Your answer is yes, You should ask yourself the second question: Do you love her and if you love her, than you should ask yourself nex question: Who do You love more- Your boyfriend or that girl. And if Your answer to that question is " I love her more than him"-your boyfriend, that means you are maybe a lesbian. But if You are sexualy attracted only to women and not to a men, in that case you are a lesbian. But if you are sexually attracted both to a women and to a men, then you are bisexual. And if You are realy in love with her, than You should tell Your boyfriend the truth. And you should ask that girl if she feels the same about You!
2007-01-26 14:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have heard this question way too many times jus cuz you think about the same sex alot doesnt make you homosexual i think about Will Smith more then regular but i know dam way im not straight i jus lok up to him a nice family man great career and all around nice guy find out why this girl fasinates you so much you may and most likely jus like the way she lives her life if you start to have dreams about doing it with her or her strippin for you then your probably bi but other than that ur straight as uncooked spaghetti lol
2007-01-26 21:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by HP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were a lesbian, you'd be attracted to women, but not men. If you're attracted to both, then your bisexual.
What are you going to do? I don't know. I wish you the best, though.
2007-01-26 22:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u like boys and u have a crush on a girl u r bi, u r not a lesbian if u like boys, lesbians don't like boys so that means u r bi
2007-01-27 06:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that will make you a lesbian, you might be bi
2007-01-26 21:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mystika 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can love any one of your friends,have lots of good times & memories so why would u want to sleep with them??????
2007-01-26 21:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur bi not a lesbian........and ur not sick. Ur perfectly normal in 2007 bein gay bi or lesbian is apart of our society. So yeah i think ur bi.
2007-01-26 21:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are whatever you decide you want to be.
2007-01-26 21:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by k X 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are if you choose to be.
2007-01-26 22:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋