I have a fiance. We are ready to get married on Valentines Day and right now he is chatting with his cybergirlfriend he is not willing to leave.
What do I do? I feel terrible.
2007-01-26 13:22:57 · 11 answers · asked by Guanaka S 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Give him an ultimatum and mean it, unless you want to be 2nd for the rest of your life. If he's cheating now, he'll only be worse after marriage. Don't be a fool, you deserve better!
2007-01-26 13:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't force someone to love you. Sounds like he is not the right one for you. Cancel the wedding date. Do you honestly want to be with someone for the next 20yrs that goes behind your back and does this? Don't persue it. It will just eat away at you. Move on and fine someone else. You may feel terrible now but it will pass. Time really does heal.
Take care & good luck.
2007-01-26 13:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cyber relationships are fun, but not real. He's probably talking to some dude. Get on another computer, find the chatrooms he frequents, and seduce him. It shouldn't be too hard if he's into that sort of thing. You know some of the things he likes, use that to hook him. Then reel him in. You're liable to find out a lot more about him than you really want to know though. Good Luck.
2007-01-26 13:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by sluttyfawne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bite your lip and move on.
To quote my best friend: "He is like a drug. No matter what he does to harm you, you just can't get away... The longer oyu deal with this crap, the harder it will be to move on later... It is like an addiction to you."
It is all you can do. Best wishes.
2007-01-26 13:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its knot possible it will never really go away but you can watch a love movie and eat allot of ice cream o and go play some pool with the guys.o and hanging out with your best friend really helps.
2007-01-26 13:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie and lindsay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why the hell are you engaged if you know he has a cybergirlfriend? thats beyond pathetic, if he is going online for some kind of satisfaction hes not getting from you, you both may want to re-evaluate your relationship.
2007-01-26 13:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kristina M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright, ill make this easy.
HE HAS A CYBERGIRLFRIEND, how pathetic is that?
i mean, if you can look at him seriously and still want to marry him, go for it..
but if you get what im saying, laugh it off, get rid of him, and find someone who is deserving.
2007-01-26 13:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by sobrien 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one should take this kinda treatment from a partner. utter disrespect! have u voiced out to him about your discomfort before? speak up, let him know that **** dont fly. its ok to have friends of the opposite sex, but cybergf??? im upset on your behalf.
2007-01-26 13:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by MikaRyki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look inside yourself. Do you want someone who loves someone else, especially someone he can not touch. Tell him you are willing to have a Threesome!
2007-01-26 13:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must be quite young. Just move one.
2007-01-26 13:33:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋