To be honest, (even though it's mean) I hate babies and I would never go through the pain of having any. But for this one guy I have loved for a long time now, I actually would, even if I am super afraid of the pain of child birth (Yes I fear any type of pain) I just think he deserves to be a father and have a child with all of his amazing traits...that's how I feel.
2007-01-26 12:24:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The sad thing is that I am not with him, and that the man is much older than me, and my teacher. I can't help it, me and him just have so much in common and such a strong connection.
And I would be a good mom, I'd give it lots of effort, besides, I always wanted to spoil kids with presents, it would just make me smile to buy stuff for my own little ones.
2007-01-26 12:34:38 · update #1
He likes me, but I am unsure if it is in the love way. I doubt it due to the restrictions, but I pray that he does love me, because I truly know I cannot feel this way with anyone else. I am in the process of flirting with him, subtly, when I can. He seems to respond but it could just be friendlyness.
2007-01-26 12:57:42 · update #2
Think of the poor child, he might be a great dad, but it sounds like you will be a cr@p mum, dont have children unless you are prepared to love them ... ... ..
2007-01-26 12:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by melark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you say that you hate babies but talk more about the pain in having them, which is it. Please don't bring a new life into the world if your not up for it. Remember those babies you hate aren't yours and there is no feeling in the world that can describe how a mother carrying feels about their unborn until you've gone through it. Babies are the product of their parents, don't let other people's kids make your decision, you can't honestly base it on what you see.
If being uncomfortable is what your afraid of, although nine months is long it is a progressive thing and it may feel long but it actually isn't .
The terrifying time when you give birth nowadays is nothing. With the amount of meds out there or an epidural you should have little or no pain.
It doesn't sound like your totally against having babies your just afraid of the whole thought of it (especially if you would even consider it). Don't worry unless you've gone through it , you honestly don't know how wonderful it really is.
2007-01-26 12:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You forget about the pain very soon after you give birth, but having a kid is FOREVER, so don't have kids if you don't want them. This guy you love will eventually not be so wonderful in your eyes and you may really resent him or worse, resent the kid you had for him.
2007-01-26 12:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by RIVER 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he like you? that's the question. this sounds like a weird situation to me. he's your teacher, and you two arent even together but you want to have a baby with him. why dont you try getting together first and then think about the next step.
2007-01-26 12:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by kristy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me you will love your own child and all the pain will be worth it in the end.
But have you talked to him? does he even want kids?
I would say it's love
2007-01-26 12:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you really love him then....but, if i were you id really think about your decision before having a child, because if you dont like babies, will you really be able to give the baby the love/support that he/she really needs?
2007-01-26 12:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by christina rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like love to me. Love can change people and their opinions.
2007-01-26 12:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by coldasyou213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should NEVER have a baby!!!!!!!!!!!!! you just said that you honestly HATE babies.!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-26 12:30:12 · answer #8 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋