I don't get into many fights either, but I HATE to forgive. It makes me feel all good and holy...
Does anyone feel this way? Do you have any idea as to why I feel this way?
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2007-01-26 12:21:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm not really a good and holy person...i'm a teeny bit more on the bad side. But i'm kind of in the middle. I'm a nice person, people like me, but I have a wild, devilish streak♥
2007-01-26 12:26:52 · update #1
Maybe you just have a complex about wanting to keep up a bad girl image (not that there is anything wrong with that). ; )
2007-01-26 12:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by JenaMarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The icky feeling is the "more you, less me" instead of the "more me, less you"
Forgiving does not mean forgetting...it means just not being able to hold the grudge against them any longer.
It means "letting it go".
2007-01-26 20:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you simply dont think that that person deserves your forgiveness. I have had grudges on people that i wanted to keep my grudge but because i needed them for something, i forgave them and i didnt like it
2007-01-26 21:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your afraid they'll do it all over again, and that scares you. But it's OK, it's only natural. If you feel you need more time to forgive someone, you should take your time. Always measure your options.
2007-01-26 20:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....It might mean you don't like that person... I don't know. If there is someone that makes me feel sick I stay away from them. If they are a family member I'm good to them but don't play buddy buddy with them. I guess you don't like that person.
2007-01-26 20:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I feel like that too!!
I usually just don't say anything and we end up talking the next day like nothing ever happened.
I don't really know why you feel that way
2007-01-26 20:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Matt21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,
research said that the person who hold the grudge or get angry in traffice is doing there self more harm than the person who they are upset at
2007-01-26 20:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by Wicked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me, I don't like to say sorry and i apologize to them. It makes me feel bad for what i did
2007-01-26 20:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by lilblondiy03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's your pride being crushed into tiny little bits.
2007-01-26 20:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by BAnne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because you believe you're right and they're wrong. but they won't admit it. so you concede to them instead.
either that or you have a jacked up sense of humility.
2007-01-26 20:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by leafy_c2i2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋