I am 5ft4' but appear like 6ft in a pair of 2inch heels and because I am somehow built to look taller and easily tower over many regular people in a pair of 2inch heels and am not sure why unless the majority of UK women are 5ft?.
I just can appear so much more taller in a 2inch pair of heels and yet there are women who wear 5 inch heels and come to my head and it is obvious that they are much shorter and not because I am trying to make myself feel better. I am very small when I wear no shoes at all and 5ft4 makes me feel very ugly.
You see the media with only or mostly women who are 5ft7 above but they are exceptions because ordinary women I see everyday are nowhere near this height and it is rare to see a tall woman. I think this constant pressure makes women feel as if they can never be attractive unless they are 6ft! - I certainly feel that effect on my life and am paranoid about being small despite having access to heels. But, do most men like tall 5ft7 plus or under?
2007-01-26
12:17:15
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Shikira-trudi
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ps, just to let you know that men are attracted to me but that is only when I wear my heels as I look taller and yet if I were to not wear any, I am sure that men would just pass me by and will not attract the smart and intelligent type I would like to find.
I feel so bad about my height that even therapy will not make me accept being 5ft4 and yet, I am an exceptionally very attractive woman who looks very youthful for 33 and have large eyes and beautiful face, but this is not enough when you are made only half beautiful.
2007-01-26
12:21:32 ·
update #1