I do have a kid. I do give him some time to him self when he goes to the fire hall with his dad or a having a meeting with the other department. I spend a day with my mom and my sister and we go the big city. The reason about him not quiting is becuase he is the only EMT around during the day. He doesn't want to leave them hunging. I keep thinking that their problem not yours. I know he has changed when his brother came to live with us last fall. Before he came, he was use to be caring, loving, and understanding more but he not. I feel that he rather wants to spend all of his time with his brother and his fire department. He has been the fire fighter thing since he was 16 and now he 22. We did spend a lot of time with each other when we first started dating and now my son and I hardly see him during the week. He has the weekends off. I do cook dinner for him and keep the house clean. He dad even told him that his wife needs a husband, needs you home. My husband told him that he knew.
2007-01-26 12:13:02 · 3 answers · asked by Kia F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can understand your situation but what exactly is your question? If you want more of his free time tell him this. I guess I would have to say what my Mom told me when I complained about my husband watching football all the time. You know where he is and he is not drinking or running around on you, so count your blessings. I don't know if that helps you but at the time it made me laugh. As long as he really isn't doing anything wrong I think you will learn to adapt.
2007-01-26 12:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by JAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is cool that he does not want to leave them hanging.
If your house caught fire, would you want someone to put out the fire? Or would you want to watch it burn to the ground because there weren't enough people on the shift because their wives complained?
Talk to him. Let him know you'd like to spend time with him during the week, not just on the weekends.
2007-01-26 12:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I have No idea what it is you are saying
2007-01-26 12:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋