does this mean im bi?

Question

is it normal for a girl to check out another girl?
but this is the first time its happened
and im into guys
does this mean im bii??

i checked out this girl
but ive always been into guys
but i think shes hot..

Answer 1

it means youre human.

Answer 2

You had to ask the question didn't you? I'd say that means you already know the answer within your heart but are looking for reassurances. Being bisexual doesn't mean you like both men and women equally, you could be 99% attracted to men but have a 1% attraction to women. I'm sure nobody in that category would call themselves bisexual but I would and there is nothing wrong with that.

I'm gay but at the same time I cannot say that at no point in my life did I never think of a female or even done something with a female. Does this make me bisexual? I believe so. I think if you want to be technical, everyone is bisexual at least to some degree. It's just a question of who is willing to admit to it and who is so scared of who they are or how they will be perceived or what sort of reaction others will have toward them. This world would be a much better place if we could all get past the labels, name calling and persecution for how one human being cares for and loves another.

I say, who cares if you're bi or if you're heterosexual or homosexual, do what you feel is right in your heart and in your mind, free yourself of what has been drilled into your head from a young age and love your fellow human being for who they are and not for what gender they are, if they happen to be male or female, it's between you and that person.

By the way, if you say that is the first time you've ever checked out another female, I tend to disbelieve you. From a very young age we have sexual curiosity and gender usually doesn't play a part in it.

Answer 3

A lot of women fantasize about other women. It's perfectly normal, at any age.

Women as just amazing, you know? It's beauty to its finest sometimes.

But so you know, there is a scale called the Kinsey Scale. It is a scale that claims that everyone is bisexual, but some are obviously more than others.

Some people are extremely not-at-all bisexual, and are either very straight or very gay, and there are a bunch of people who are somewhere in between.

Maybe you are just a tiny little bitty inch into the lesbian scale. But you know, that doesn't mean you'll ever act on your impulses or even think about another woman like that.

So you are "traditionally" straight, with maybe a flexibility towards the same sex under certain circumstances.

I believe it is called hetero-flexible. So that's where you may be at this point.

But don't worry about labels. Just live life.

Answer 4

At this degree your probable only curious. i think of for the reason which you thoroughly close lesbians out of your existence, there is something interior you that now desires to locate that area. Its strange how the brian works, issues that we close off to frequently finally end up making us extremely curious via fact as we mature we enable down our guard and develop into greater attracted to issues we would possibly no longer have been until eventually now. perhaps you're information that lesbians are people too and in keeping with risk there isnt that lots incorrect with them . wish this facilitates.

Answer 5

No, I think it's quite normal for a girl to be curious and check out other girls from time to time. That doesn't mean we are going to do anything. Besides, women are pretty, and they dress in such a way that it's hard NOT to check them out. And I am not Bi.

Answer 6

it means you are at least a little bit bi. none of this "it's normal for straight girls" BS. that's what i kept telling myself back in the day. there's only one reason you check out hot girls, and that's because you like hot girls! that doesn't mean you're gay, but it does mean that you aren't straight. don't get hung up about it. you are like most people and just fall somewhere in the middle.

Answer 7

Not Necessarily. I think that when a girl "checks out" another girl is mostly a comparisson thing. Ive looked at other girls, and im not bisexual. Just becuase you have looked at another girl doesnt mean you have physical attraction for girls in general.

Answer 8

I think it depends on what you're thinking while looking at another girl. If you feel sexually aroused then yes, you might be bi but if it doesn't happen often then you might be just curious. I've heard that it's normal for people to feel like that at least once in their life. Of course if it happens too often then it means something else.

Answer 9

well their is alot of hot girls out there...ill admit it and i check them out too.
I've never done anything with a girl and i don't really want too unless its Adriana lima or Angelina Jolie....hmm maybe i am bi but i would much rather be a with a guy....so i guess not.

Answer 10

not necessarily. a lot of girls 'check eachother out' to see things like the latest fashions, etc. b/c girls are generally very jealous of other beautiful girls!!! it's fine for you to think a girl is even "hot," b/c that's just thinking she looks good, but if you think about doing stuff with girls, then there's probably more to it

Answer 11

I strongly believe that all women find other women beautiful.
Women are like art, curvy, sensual, etc.
Whats not to like?
You arent bi, you just like beauty. Nothing wrong with that.