my bf dumped me about a week or two ago. we had been best friends since the cradle. we had had this on and off relationship cuz he has been bi but keeps trying 2 deny the side of him that likes men. nobody but me and my friends kno he's bi. he dumped me by way of text message. he decided he wanted this girl that has been sleeping with half of the neighborhood. i was so outraged that he had chosen her over me. i had been there 4 him when he needed someone while she went and slept with half the kids at their skool.
my stupid ex also gave me his myspace password and 4got 2 change it after we broke up. i went on there 2 day and outed him on the about me section. then i wrote crap about his girlfriend (the town ****) and acted as if he was the one writing this. then i changed his password so he couldn't undo the damage i caused. he also doesn't have the internet, so by the time he figures out what i did, it will be 2 late.
was it wrong of me 2 do this? i think that he got wat he deserved.
2007-01-26 12:01:37 · 23 answers · asked by blewboy333 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
if u wanna c it. go look him up under his e-mail: milfsrule666@yahoo.com
there should be a pic with an animals *** as the defalt
2007-01-26 12:10:40 · update #1
to mysticstargoddess:
i'm asking bcuz i feel it was right but wat one feels is right and wat actually is right r 2 totally different things.
and of course i feel guilt. i loved him and cared 4 him with all i had and he just screwed me over so easily
2007-01-26 12:14:05 · update #2
to gitsliveon24:
it's 2 late 2 change it. i did it early this morning and i noticed that a bunch of his friends were online and they must've seen it by now.
2007-01-26 12:17:39 · update #3
LMFAO - dude - it may be wrong but damn!! that is a good one. Breaking up in a text message is so freakin lame. Don't you dare go change it now from guilt. That is the best. Good work wrong or right who cares - LOL
2007-01-26 12:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by ant.dabomb 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No you're no longer incorrect, yet needless to say your ex and their father could no longer care much less approximately what number babies he has in this international. If he's stupid adequate to circulate on nationwide television for a paternity try, then i think of it could be greater advantageous so which you would be able to sit down down inclusive of your daughters and enable them to be attentive to what's happening until eventually now somebody else sees him someplace and tells them. i'm hoping that at some point you discover an excellent guy which will shelter your daughters the way they're meant to be cared for, via fact little women unquestionably want a competent guy effect of their lives. sturdy success
2016-09-28 01:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by heusel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it felt good at the moment. I understand that he hurt you but you need to realize that you breached his trust and you've probably ruined your friendship also by outing him when he wasn't ready. People make mistakes and sooner or later they realize it. So if he chose the town **** over you eventually he would have realized he messed up and would have probably asked u to forgive him. Now you just pushed him right into her arms even if it's just to get away from you. So yea it was wrong you should have thought it thru and thought of the consequences before you did it.
2007-01-26 12:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Haha, that is so something I would do. I dealt with something similar before and to tis day he is still bouncing back and forth hurting everyone in his path by not speaking up. Nice of you to provide the link so we can all get a good laugh however the profile is set to private so we can't see it anyways.
2007-01-26 16:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by RIguynFL 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I Don't think it's right, and it will probably just cause more problems between the two of you, so it would have been better if you didn't do it, if you still like him, It would have been more effective if you let him be broken from that girl, then if he wants to come back to you slap him in the face...
2007-01-26 12:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's really bad! Two wrongs don't make a right. Now not only is he a jerk for what he did to you but you are a jerk for what you did to him. You should have been the bigger person. I always say what comes around, and it usually does. But hey if it made you feel good and you have no guilt, kudos!
2007-01-26 12:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by hstoic01 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You were too hard on him........BUT.....
I can understand your side of it. Remember.....not everyone can easily come out. This sounds like the case with him. Also, outing him like that really proves nothing. just that you were pissed! I think you are both quite young yet, and you are much farthur along in accepting your sexuality and gender preference than he is. Time will tell. Time fixes all! Really! You'll see.
Be good to yourself......
2007-01-26 12:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by Steven Keith 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What you did was completely wrong. People are passed up for each other every day. It doesn't give you the right to expose his private life and ridicule him and his girlfriend. Suck it up and move on. What you did showed that he made a good choice in breaking up with you, and you made sure that he'll never get back with you. What goes around comes around.
2007-01-26 13:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by lavendergirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Was it wrong of you to do this? Yes.
Did he get what he deserved? Yes.
I guess you can call it a draw.
I'm sorry you got so badly hurt. Life is full of those who will conveniently forget everything you did and meant to them. You'll find it easier to accept as you get older.
2007-01-26 12:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by castle h 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think revenge is wrong, and what you did was mean. Being dumped may hurt your ego and pride, but acting in such a manner makes you worse than the boyfriend who dumped you.
2007-01-26 12:19:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mary D 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋