my best friend kissed me?

Question

i am female ( as she is !) and she made her intentions clear that she likes me !!
my god what do i do???
i am married, seperating from husband???

all of you are presuming i am a lesbian, and want a lesbian affair, well you couldnt be more wrong. i am going through a difficult time in my marriage i went to my friend as i was upset we had a few drinks i got upset she consoled me and as she went to hug me she kissed me!! i was very shocked and pulled away. we both did the nervous laugh and i make excusses to leave. we have spoken since but i feel uneasy now in her sole company-she is also married!

Answer 1

I would definatly not go for it. If your married, why would you? Give some time after you 2 are separated and maybe its not a good match for you two if you like guys and you only like her as a friend. Maybe even try to see other people until you sort out your feelings.

Answer 2

That's up to you. If you think you might have feelings for her, even a little, try it. You never know you might enjoy it, or at least you'll find out you were just curios and that was it. But if you already know you're against this then tell her. If she's been your friend for a while I'm sure she'll understand.

Answer 3

How do you feel about it? If you only want to be friends and not lovers, simply and kindly tell her that you really appreciate her friendship, but friends, not lovers is all you can be otherwise you just can't hang with her any more. That's tough when you are going through a breakup with your husband.

Answer 4

depends how you feel, you could try it out with her and see how it goes but risk loosing her friendship if it all goes wrong or you could just tell her that your not gay and only see her as your friend nothing more and if she is ok with that then you could put it all behind you and carry on being friends.

You must have given some sort of signs for her to go and kiss you out of the blue, have a chat with her maybe she is feeling just as uncomfortable about the whole thing as you are. xx

Answer 5

Say you like her but only as a best mate and want to stay that way... Sorry But only like boys and give her a hug... And not to worry as you still want her as a mate. This is a shock... And what girls does she fancy other then you...


Also get the lads to take her to a lap dance bar.

Answer 6

Well, it all comes down to this, do you want to be Bi?? If you dont want this to be then you must make it clear to her that you do not like her, i know ur friendship is improtant to you and i get that, but there are limits and if she crossed it, you HAVE to deal with her. Ok and tell her that even though she knows u are separating with ur husband doesnt give her the right to you something like that. ok i hope this helps

Good Luck

Answer 7

That is your choice, you are soon to be a free agent and if you want to experiment, go on and do it, but make sure that your friend knows that you are just trying it out, if you dont want to and dont want to lose your friend then tell her straight that you are flattered but you have no feelings for her or any other female.

Answer 8

Life is here to be enjoyed ... take the plunge

I have a lesbian friend who tells me it is much easier to "pull" a straight woman than another lesbian

Answer 9

Kissing is a 2 way business you must have kissed back. Just go for it nothing better than a couple of ladies in comfortable shoes.

Answer 10

Well, i would sit down and talk to her. Explaining to her that you arn't attracted to the same sex. Don't be too harsh on her. It was prob. really hard for her to kiss you. remmember back to your 1st true love. But that person did not love you. How would you of liked that pespn to tell you that they wern't attracted to you? Use that and tell your friend.

Hope this helped and good luck :)