(Chinese father, Black mother)
2007-01-26 11:29:52 · 20 answers · asked by misscoolcat89 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I don't really get accepted from people I wanna be friends with. These groups of girls, always say ****. They make fun of my chinky eyes and my father.
2007-01-26 11:31:32 · update #1
First and foremost - smile inside and remember no one kicks a dead dog. (meaning they only make fun of what they are jealous of) I like when people have me on their mind and have to think about me trying to come up with stupid remarks. I laugh that they fill their days thinking of me while I live my life...makes you wonder how much of a real loser they are that they can't think for themselves and don't have a life of their own. So, smile and remember as you grow stronger and go forward with your life and the world opens up to you - they will be living in their own moronic hell, terrified of every change and finding someone else to spend their days thinking of - CAUSE THEY STILL DON'T HAVE A LIFE -- HA HA sounds like a bunch of losers...and I don't think you want to hang with losers. Find yourself some people that actually have a life, I am sure when you look at them for what they are --- big idiots - 1) their words carry no weight 2) you won't want to hang with them & 3) you will have a warm fuzzy feeling inside every time you pass them and hear their words. Trust me on that one...once you realize the idiot clown fools they are the one's making fun of you - you get to finally sit back and laugh at their 3 ring circus act and see them for what they are -- oh, yeah get a big popcorn, and giant coke and enjoy the show.
2007-01-26 11:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by karadansu 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no excuse for Ignorance. I know this may not comfort you but we've came a long way over the past century. My mother always told me if you have confidence in yourself and express that confidence in the way you handle yourself it makes you stronger and more self assured to others. Be proud of your heritage. Stand tall and look them straight in the eye. You can take anything from someone except their pride and no one can take that away from you unless you allow them. You have got to make peace with yourself before you can change others beliefs about you. Good luck.
2007-02-03 19:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by martin49 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would assume that teasing girls are white girls and / or black girls! Many men find Asian mixture truely a turn on! I would not worry too much about the others and their teasing, because it is probably out of jealousy! The Mixed Asian girls and Eurasian girls that I have met do outshine the white and black girls with their beauty and poise.
2007-02-03 04:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by david c 777w4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My response is the same response: those who ridicule mere appearance are doing you the favor of telling you which ones to not waste your time on.
Seriously, you are better being alone than hanging out with such people. In time, your appearance (never saw "blackinese" before--quaint word) will actually be attractive to someone. Meanwhile, focus your efforts on being a person of noble character: generous and kind, making others more important than you.
2007-01-26 19:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly... one day you will have an epiphany and recognize that people are just plain ol' ignorant when it comes to race/ethnicity. We shy away from what we deem to be different and make fun of it because in our shallow minds we just cannot relate. Suggestion for you... love yourself. Be confident and accepting of yourself... find yourself some role models that represent your unique characteristics... i.e., Kimora Lee Simmons, Tiger Woods, Tyson Beckford who granparent was Chinese, etc.
2007-02-03 13:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I wouldn't want to be accepted into this type of girls clique.You are already of better breeding,and education than these girls.They show that in what they say and do.Do you love your Father and Mother?Are you proud of you Mother and Father? I hope so.If your are you stand tall,you be proud.Be strong,this will change
2007-02-02 15:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your time, be who you are and learn to be comfortable with who you are. F them, school is just a step in the long walk of life, dont waste your time with them. If you want something to say, go with something like.... in the future we are all gonna be mixed raced. Or you may be a mix of two races but at least your not an ugly beast who needs to talk smack to make herself feel better.
2007-01-26 19:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by nyoo1578 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to get teased all the time about my racial background,just brush it off and keep on going. By the way,everyone used to call me Oreo,,you know like the cookie! (White mother,Black father)
2007-02-03 17:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Julie T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People always think that my older sister is part Filipino (because of her almond eyes) and she is not. She is actually 100% black.
Anyways, why should you care! Tell them to shut up if they have nothing positive to say before they force you to retaliate by making fun of their own facial features.
For real though, you need to get new friends
PEACE
2007-01-26 23:44:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them.but still be nice to someone.we are all equal in the eyes of God.outer appearance is not important as long as you have a good personality.It's not your fault if you are blackinese but be thankful of your life.a woman with noble character who can compare.don't be sad you have your family who loves and cherish you for who and what you are.
2007-01-26 19:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by MACRENE PADASDAO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋