we have been seperated since march of 2006. tonight we have a date, and shes talkin about moving back in with me. what are some fun things we can do. more importantly what are some things that i should do to make her feel special? and what are some things to avoid doing, like smothering, or being clinging or needy?
2007-01-26 10:51:51 · 8 answers · asked by tiracs69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stand her up!! You MUST be experiencing temporary insanity. you have been separated for nearly one year, it is over, get on with your life, man.
2007-01-26 11:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. My parents were speprated in the Summer of 2005. In 2006, they divorced. Divorce should never happen between you and your wife. Let her move back in with you, but hide your small and maybe personal belongs just to make sure noting bad happens (which I highly doubt). Good Luck my friend.
2007-01-26 11:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by TheTallGuy55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
locate help from family contributors, acquaintances, college your son attends and hire somebody knowledgeable to deal inclusive of your son on a one on one bases. this is going to finally end up a similar way while you're taking her lower back and now she is much greater so risky b/c of the drug use. She abandon your son at a time of want your son will continuously be needy and he or she would be able to no longer provide to him what he desires! she would be able to run away lower back if no longer from you your son that's going to be from herself... have not you heard there's a breakout of sexual transmitted deseases good now!!! and there alwyas would be, is she rather rather unquestionably worth the strain - sounds such as you have your palms finished why handle greater? there is somebody obtainable keen to be your each and every thing and your sons each and every thing and this isn't any longer your spouse, so get obtainable and locate her! you're able to try this and in the long-term you would be grateful you probably did do thid on your very own and without her help b/c she isn't useful she only provides to the cahos you have already got! do no longer you wnat to sleep sound and sturdy at night without the concerns of what she'll be pulling next on you?
2016-09-28 00:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out this free e-book that lists 101 romantic things to do.
http://www.howtohavecharm.com/101romanticideas.html
There is a couple that almost got divorced themselves that has a weekly show, website etc that gives wonderful advice about marriage etc. I believe their shows are on the website. It would be worth it to watch and learn from them.
www.marriagetoday.org
2007-01-26 11:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember how it use to be when the relationship was new, what did u do than? just compliment her, tell her u have missed her, and let her make all the moves, and be the one to decide what goes. got to make her feel safe emotionally with u, like she can talk to u about anything and not fear u are going to shut her down. good luck
2007-01-26 11:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure what she wants from you, ask her. If you're ever going to put it back together permanently, you both have to know what the other wants from your marriage.
2007-01-26 11:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a letter or send a card
2007-01-26 11:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her do the planning,afterall she has been the one who has been estranged for that long.
2007-01-26 10:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋