Gift for the wife?

Question

My wife and I are both white. One night, I rented a porn flick just trying to spice things up for my wife. She didn't show a reaction to most of the movie. However, during one scene where a well hung, muscular black man made love to a pretty white woman, she said, "Now that's hot. She's going for it" about three times. Later, when I asked her if she liked the movie, she said, "I would never cheat on you, baby, but I love the way black packages look on tv." I laughed. We all have out fetishes. I even joked that I may get her a black stripper for her birthday. She laughed and said, "Nasty boy!." About 3 months have passed and out of the blue she says, "When are you getting the black stripper?" She played it like a joke, but she remembered after all that time. Do you think she is serious? She has been such a good, faithful wife, I would considering it. Just a complete strip--nothing more. Would you still respect your husband if he gave you a sexy on-time "gift" for your birthday

Answer 1

I don't think that respect is the issue. I think it is more about the stability of your relationship. If you are completely secure with the relationship that you and your wife have and have no doubts pertaining to her faithfulness and loyalty AND you are not the "jealous type" then go for it. She will definitely enjoy herself. But if you are having doubts, and it seems like you are, why not give her the next best thing. Why not get another porno but make sure that the lead men in the movie are black men. Watch it together and then YOU strip for her later. She will appreciate the effort and I think it will be just as enjoyable.