mark has been divorced for over 5yrs but by the way his ex acts u would never know it.she is always trying to get info(always in a sneaky way) about us from my inlaws.for example we told marks 9yr old son we are "thinking" about having a baby.well he must have told his mom as she "ran" over to my inlaws to ask "if they knew about our new baby" but never asked us about it and she sees us all the time.if she is not trying to get info about us then she is bad mouthing us to anyone that will listen.the only "bad" thing mark ever did was divorce her and it was not for me.she just treated him like crap till he could not take it any more and left but left her everything house,car.money.the only reason we put up with it is because of thier son they share we don't want to put him in the middle.is this normal that she is so consumed/bitter with our life still after 5yrs?it started to ware on my nurves how can i deal with this?
2007-01-26 10:26:58 · 6 answers · asked by maryvincent67 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell this woman to back off. She had a chance being married to him and it didn't work. it sounds to me that she would like to get him back. Tell your husband exactly what your going to say to her so later there won't be any lies or misunderstandings. It would even be better if he were there when you verbally blasted her. Get this ***** out of your lives, or she will always be in the picture, one way or another.
2007-01-26 10:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by smcdevitt2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had two ex-wives to deal with as I was the third wife.There a lot of different feelings going on with the ex. She could be dealing or not with her change of mind. Regretting what has happened. No matter what your there now and try not to let thoughts of her ruin your life. I have a child with an ex and that parent bond is still there but I don't bug his new family. If the need is there to talk to him about our daughter we talk. I think she's just trying to remain part of the family through the son and In-Laws. These are real tricky issues. I wouldn't guarantee talking to her will help but would it hurt? Draw a closer bond with your in-laws so you continue to feel you belong when she gets in the way with her new found knowledge.Never draw back from your husband it's not his fault what the ex does and you will have strength with each other. My husband and I would hold each other tight and the problems went away for that time.
2007-01-26 20:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by krazzzzzzywoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets face it, every ex husband has terrible stories to tell of their ex wife to their new wife. Its just the way it is. Sounds to me like she still pines for her ex. And that may be why she is poking around in your business. I guess that it may hurt her to know that you all were planning on having a baby. Or maybe on a different note, her concern is with the fact of her son, if he will be put on the back burner once a baby was in the picture. I would suggest putting yourself in her shoes briefly in your mind and maybe this will help you to understand her more, to think of the way you would be if in a similar situation. Just a thought. Good Luck:0)
2007-01-26 18:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by blazerc123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did u talk with your husband ex wife heart to heart ... ask her to be your friend .....You know it was not very simple to do it, but if can help why not......right... She will shy to do some terrible things any more becoz she see that your different person...Start now and earn more .Be friendly....and your husband will be great to you coz instead of fighting back to his ex, you handle her professionally....Hope this can help.....GOD bless you...
2007-01-26 19:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by raven angelus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my husbands ex arrested for harrasment and she has'nt bothered us anymore.I would have beat her *** but i moved from louisianna to her home town and she has screwed all the cops here but i knew they had to arrest her if i filed charges.I put up with it for 3 yrs and decided enough was enough...
2007-01-26 18:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like she has no life, and she could cause problems in your marriage, he needs to have a talk with her and tell her to back off and stay away,
2007-01-26 18:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋