There's this one guy i met my freshman year of college. i was studying for the psych midterm in the library and he asked to study with me. I've had a crush on him since then.
Since then wehnever he sees me we get into a conversation and we seem to have a lot of fun. Now I'm a senior and he's a 2nd year med student. he still goes to the same school. i now occassionally see him. I think I like him and I think I should tell him but I tremble when I want to tell him. How do I tell him? I think what held me back was that I occasionally saw a girl with him and I thought he was taken. My friends said that they don't think he's taken. How do i tell him?
The last time I told a guy I liked him, in high school, he freaked out and wouldn't dare to look at me or talk to me for a whole month.
2007-01-26 10:18:50 · 6 answers · asked by christigmc 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Come on darlin, just ask him out. It's a great boost to his ego. He may not be in the market for a full time girlfriend (med school is hard and long) but at least you'll have the chance to see him, and get to know him a little bit more. Get some tickets to someplace nice, and ask him if he would like to go with you. Nothing ventured is nothing gained, and you'll always regret not finding out. Go get him now. Good luck
2007-02-02 04:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take a chance and tell him. maybe he feels the same way. youre not in high school anymore, im sure he is mature enough to be honest with youif he doesnt share the same feelings. Go for it!
Ok this is what you say, "I want to tell you something, dont take it too seriously, i just have to let it out, I have a crush on you. If you dont feel the same, its okay, i just had to let you know."
It's like youre giving him an ego boost at the same time. It will take the tension off.
Dont worry about him having a gf, as far as you know he doesnt, if he does then he will tell you. If he does have a gf and if he has the same feelings for you, he may just break it off with her to be with you. As long as you dont say anything he will never know.
Good luck!
2007-01-26 10:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out, drop little hints here and there...
Start conversations like what he think of you? Then about the girl, dont ask too direct questions like who's that girl(unless you are very close with him), but ask him if he has anyone special in mind?
Send/Text sweet messages to him, e.g. those missing forwarded messages or wishing him good night or those more convern messages.
Buy small sweet gifts for him
During these times, most importantly, give eye contacts. Show your seducing but also shy eye contact...
Once all above has been accepted and well received, then maybe you can step into Phase 2, by going out more often with him. At the same time, find out more about him and common interests...
If you think you are ready, pop out the truth about your real feelings (of course, if he havent ask you to be his girl)...
P/S: All the Best!
2007-01-26 10:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by Mary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I encountered that situation before. I didnt tell him my feelings....you know what i did? i drunk a lot fo beer and he ask me if i have any problem? In the morning i was shocked cz he just ask me if i love him? I dont know why did he knows. And i revealed what is my real feeling, i dont know that time he has already girlfriend so he said just wait. The other day he said he broke up with the girl, i dont know what to say......... just he decided that from that day we are on....It is better to say your feeling then no regret at the end.
2007-02-03 00:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Mhazel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put a note on the windshield of his car.... Tell him you are doing a study and would like to talk to him - give him a contact info etc.... When you do meet him (not over the phone)- tell him it's a personal study...(if he asks... tell him you are interested in human nature) And that you want to get to know him because you are curious and you felt drawn to him somehow. That should keep him curious and you informed!!! And best of all... It's not even lying!
2007-02-01 17:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by rod 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
before doing anything make sure you ask him if he's single. ask him in a casual friendly convo way so you do not freak him out. if he is single then you should tell him how you feel. you should not cmopare your high school experience with this because guys tend to be a bit immature at that stage
2007-01-26 10:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋