How hard it is for a man to be faithful? I feel there is a lack of appreciation for our struggle.
2007-01-26 10:16:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. They don't understand what it's like testosterone and for your body to produce millions of sperm cells all day every day. O BTW, sperm that has to go somewhere.
2007-01-26 10:30:06 · update #1
sxybrwny...are you serious? men have been able to be faithful for centuries? on what planet is this you speak of?
2007-01-26 10:31:33 · update #2
I would expect these reponses from self-absorbed women that believe just because a man takes wedding vows that their biological needs cease to exist. And if a man remains faithful, like myself, it's because of magic..and not because we embrace the struggle as an opportunity to show how much we love our wives by not cheating.
2007-01-26 10:36:54 · update #3
Self-absorbed women always find a way to make it about them, instead of just answering the question. I'm sure some women do struggle with this as well. But that was not the question.
2007-01-26 10:38:50 · update #4
are you serious....men don't cheat if they are happy....on what planet is this you speak of?
2007-01-26 11:06:37 · update #5
I completely understand ... the women are getting hotter and hotter ... the girls in high school keep looking older and older and more developed than my @ss will ever be .. lol .. women are the most beautiful creatures on Earth. If I had the chance to sleep with them and have my man by my side I would ... but he doesn't like to share ... ( doesn't stop me from trying .. lol .. ) the fact he comes home to me every night and every day makes me feel like the most amazing woman ever ... today when I went home for lunch I wrote " I love U " on the bathroom mirror with his shaving cream and packed him a bowl ... that and I give him head all the time - the other day it was so fun after Monster Truck we had a long drive home so I had to keep him awake some how ... lol ... appreciation for your struggle .. that's a new one ... !
2007-01-26 10:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some of us do understand. Lets face it society has built up to where sex is every where. Women dress sexy, they smell sexy, they walk sexy, and if you're just horny her simple presence is sexy. Hormones are understandable and it isnt a lack of appreciation for your struggle to control hormones that gives off that impression you have. It is our expectation that you realize you are more powerful than your hormones. It is our confidence that you will not submit to your hormones. To us it is a given that you'll be faithful because you should know you're more powerful than the sperm in your balls or the urges the tip of your c*ck feels when the thought of sex enters your mind. We see you as strong and there is no need to walk around telling a strong man how strong he is all the time because his confidence is so high that he won't appreciate the compliment most of the time. So, maybe you should look at it differently to see the beauty of it.
2007-01-26 19:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by Love to Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be hard if your woman is fulfilling your needs sexually, emotionally and spiritually. Men don't cheat if they have a happy home life. Lack of appreciation for your struggle? Is this a joke? It's called self control and if you can't be faithful then you have no business getting married or having a committed relationship. Nothing justifies cheating. If you're so unhappy, get a divorce and then sleep around...
2007-01-26 19:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do you think it's harder for you than the woman? We have needs just like you do and the fantasy of an affair is just as attractive to us at times. You may have a bit of a disadvantage in that your testosterone makes you consider sex a bit more often but hey, you are not in the minority here, pal.
It is the mature and emotionally healthy man and woman that will resist any inclination to stray. Are you telling us that the desire is so strong and you are so weak that you have no control over you own future, you own behavior? I'm sorry but my bullsh*t-meter is going wild over this one. Why not just leave your marriage so you can do them all? If you were my husband I would help you exit my life and wish you well.
2007-01-26 18:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Ande 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I understand that most men are sexually driven, but guess what men for centuries have been able to remain faithful.. they need to have sex.. i get that.. but guess what , thats what the wifes for.. men like to use the fact that they are "men" to excuse their actions, do u really think that women dont have the same urges?? Im more sexually driven then my husband, but id neverrrrrrrr cheat on him.. its about morals , values, and promises.. IF U CANT REMAIN FAITHFUL.. u have zero business being married or in a committed relationship..
U can either decide to be a "real man" and do what is right, and own up to the vows that u've taken..
Or fine.. Be a "little boy trapped in a mans body" but dont get married, or be in a relationship because people get devestated by believing in you, trusting in u, taking ur word for your bond, and families and children tend to get their lives destroyed simply because u lack the maturity to be in a "real" relationship
I have more respect for people that 1. are married and live by the vows they took everyday and not just when its convient for them.. and 2. for people who are just honest and up front and say " i have zero business being married im not in this for a relationship im just in this for sex and thats it" as cold as it sounds, atleast those people who dont screw with peoples emotions and lives atleast they are honest..
2007-01-26 18:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women can look at an attracted guy and think the same way as guys do. So would guys understand our struggle? I see alot of attractive men out here in the world but i don't go say hi and then seduce them, because i know where i stand, i am married and i'll keep being faithful to my husband.
2007-01-26 18:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by Nascar Momma 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes i can see why you feel this way but you also have to understand how we feel and why.... We feel that if our husband is not faithful to us that they do not love us or care about us.... Can you understand our struggles and hard times when this happen how hard it is for us to deal with and get past that kind of pain and when we feel our husbands do not love or care about how we feel or how this affects us and our hearts.... Appreciation should go both ways and we should treat each other the way we should want them to treat us. Respect of each others feelings should go both ways. Do you husbands understand and care about our feelings on this? I hope so.
2007-01-26 18:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I find this hard to explain, if you are unable to remain in a committed relationship, then do not, but to expect medals and a pat on the back because you are doing what you demand of another is just plain ludicrous
2007-01-26 18:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do men really understand?
How hard it is for a woman to be faithful? I feel there is a lack of appreciation for our struggle.
2007-01-26 18:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
ok, so how about the women like me who will take that sperm every single day?
where's your argument there?
flip side, sweetheart---do men know how difficult it is for women to be faithful if they aren't with the right man?
duh.
2007-01-26 18:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by moniquebell 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋