Alright, so I am sixteen. This boy, who is 18 was intoduced to me by a family member and so we sort of decided to hang out. We went to the movies and then went back to his friends house till i had to be home. The next few days i talked to the guy, not in person but of the phone. Now he asks why I wait so long before I will have sex with a guy. He said that it shouldn't matter, and that he doesnt want me to make the same mistake he did, as in wait for a while for the one you love to be ready, and just do it before you loose them. Does this sound like all he wants it sex?
2007-01-26 10:16:35 · 5 answers · asked by mystifyingsilence 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's a guy. He wants sex. (Duh)
Preferably, with you. (Flattery?)
How do YOU feel ?
2007-01-26 10:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that "yes"....sex is the prominent focus on his mind, which isn't at all unusual in boys his age. However, when he asks you why you wait so long...tell him because you have self respect for yourself, and you won't just jump in bed with anyone. In the long run...serious guys will appreciate your standing and respect you more for it. After you are with someone after making them wait, they will be more secure in the relationship, because they will know your values and where you stand. Tell him if sex is the reason to lose someone, then so be it, they weren't worth the effort in the first place. Best wishes!
2007-01-26 18:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he wants sex. He is trying to convince you that he is going to ditch you if you do not give into him. If you are not ready then do not have sex with him. He can just leave.
This may be an uncomfortable situation with your uncle. But you do not have to tell him what happened if you do not feel okay with it. Just tell him that you didn't have as much in common as one would want in a relationship.
2007-01-26 18:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by BetsyLauren 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES. and by tellin you all this nonsense about not waiting just prrooves that all he wants to do is get in your pants. and it also shows that he has no respect for a girl by waiting for when she is ready and would quickly move on to some next girl if she said she wasnt ready for sex
2007-01-26 18:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!! all he wants is sex. By telling you, dont wait until you are inlove, means he wont make an effort to be w you and make you fall for him. Why can you love him? Think about it...
2007-01-26 18:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋