well im lee im 14 and alot of my friends have started havin sex.. now i am NOT going to do that for a while.. people say its fun and all but i know the dangers of it.. is it just teens trying things out like exsperimenting... i mean we see it on TV all the time.. so why do they do it?
2007-01-26 09:45:00 · 27 answers · asked by MICKIE JAMES #1 FAN 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
The society, tv, and sex crazed adults make teens think that it is something so cool and important, that if your not doing it, then you are a loser without a life. I'm 15 and I plan on waiting until marriage. I encourage you to do the same thing and you will have done something that most youth and adults will throw away as if it was not a big deal. People want to make is seem so good, but it has many consequences besides the obvious for both teens and adults. Your very mature and I admire that!
2007-01-26 15:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by divadaddygogirl 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2007-01-26 13:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by gr8one129 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They think it's really mature and awesome, but often it isn't. I know I'm 13 I have urges I asked my mom and she says some jerk talked his way into her pants when she was young and it was awful and she's always regretted it. Also, my best friend's mom lost her virginity at 14 and she really wants my best friend to hold back for a while. Must be a reason. I'm waiting till I'm sensible enough to choose the right guy and my body's developed enough to handle it. I'd suggest other teens do, too. You can get a safer buzz fantasizing or masturbating yourself, and you don't have to depend on someone else for pleasure.
2007-01-26 14:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by adanarama 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's because of hormones and curiosity. I am 14 too.
Take this into consideration if you plan on waiting until you are married:
The Bible was written a loooong time ago and times have changed. Girls back then got married at 13/14 when they started thinking about sex.
Also, my grandmother waited until marriage and told me a few months ago that she would have never married the guy. She only did because she wanted to sleep with him.
Me personally, I am waiting until about 16.
2007-01-26 10:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of it is our culture and what we see on tv. It's so dramatized and looked at as an amazing thing on a lot of shows and movies. Some people make it out to be such a big deal, that when it finally happens to them, they're disappointed! lol
2007-01-26 09:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i'm 15, and i pretty much have the same question, but i'm pretty sure people do that because they havent had the experience of the hard life it could bring them, i asked one of my friends how it was, and he says its been kinda tough lately. i also kind of think that people do it to as a way to keep their minds out of the bad days and bad thoughts, i mean like, its a way to run away from their problems, like stress, and pressure, etc. for those of you guys/girls who didn't impregnate ur partner or got pregnant, then feel free to be feeling lucky, u don't know the hard life that u could've gotten into.
2007-01-26 12:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by burning ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its mostly peir pressure.
im 15, and im not a virgin.
iv slept with 2 people.
i broke my virginity at age 14.
i had this boyfriend, and he was "the cool kidd" i guess u can say.
and i was lucky because he was my boyfriend.
i was surposed to be going to the movies, and by the way he was 16 at the time. well i was surposed to be at the movies, but me and a couple of ma girls went over to his house. he took me in his room, and it kinda just happened. But if u "do it" it comes right to u, like an instinct. lol. but when u hit the age 13 or 14, yur hormones start kicking in, and u want to start havin sex.
so theres some advice. good luck
2007-01-26 09:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by skool gurl 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Because most teens think they are grown and you can't tell them anything. But some just do it because they think they are in love. They could be, but 9 out of 10 times they will get pregant and the boy will leave they high and dry.
2007-01-26 09:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by Brittany B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
teenagers want to be grown, independent, rebellious,experimental, fit in etc. Becuz of all these things they tend to not make the right choices or do whatever they want without thinking about it but it's just a phase everyone goes through and at some point in their life they'll look back and they might regret it
2007-01-26 10:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by nys1star 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it! You are a smart person so don't do it until you're old enough and in love! Teenagers' hormones are all messed up so many feel they need to have sex and others just follow like sheep.
2007-01-26 09:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by claireybearyfairy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋