2007-01-26 09:13:36 · 10 answers · asked by Nascar Momma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They also think that as long as you give sex to your partner 24 seven that it will keep him from cheatin? What's going on here?
2007-01-26 09:14:25 · update #1
yeah but if a man is sooo worried about getting sex and not worried about their wife being very stressed out from worried about the husband, their kids, and money problems but have not time for herself...then what would that lead too then? Because that is what is happening to me.
2007-01-26 09:23:55 · update #2
The thing is I always give him the attention, i give attention to the kids. I am on thin ice from all this stress. i never get a break, i never get a "me" time.
2007-01-26 09:30:02 · update #3
and my husband isn't the people i am talking about. i've asked a question about the sex thing and i had gotten alot of response about me not giving enough or me being not reasonable about it. when i have been giving him the attention, and my kids, but i never get a break , or even get out to have a me time. and i know its not a chore about the sex thing, but some of the response that i get those people make it look like a freaken chore.
2007-01-26 09:58:37 · update #4
I AM JUST BEING DRAINED HERE. My body is getting soo close to not have room for all the stress i am gettin. Plus me and my husband hasn't really been able to go out with out the kids either. its been for so long.
2007-01-26 10:01:15 · update #5
Who ever told you this or where evr you heard this its completely false. Yes sex and intimacy are important in a marriage but
communication is first and foremost. Sex in marriage is for pleasure and fun and of course to reproduce but it is never been said that you do it 24/7 when you get hitched first of all no one has that kind of time unless they are unemployed. Remember in marriage everything is done mutually you should never do anything unless you feel like it if the guy cheats then leave his sorry behind because only a jerk and a pig would do that to the one he is suppose to love. Tell your hubby to leave you alone
if you are newlyweds it is normal to go a little nuts for the first few months but generally sex lessens in the relationship after marriage. Another point tell your hubby if you spread the amount of times you have sex it is more pleasurable for both involved.
One last thing you are not his sex toy or slave you are a human being and should be treated as such. God Bless.
2007-01-26 09:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry CB.
24/7 no, but if a man is denied denied denied he's going to be unhappy.
Unhappy people do bad things. Maybe they just eat it and be unhappy forever, but is that what you want?
Happy people do not cheat. That may not be the reason they are unhappy, but come on - what is wrong with having a lot of sex with your husband?
Deny him = divorce, eventually.
By the way I am in no way suggesting husbands do not have the happiness of their wife as a responsibility as well - you brought up the current scenario, so that's what I was talking about.
2007-01-26 17:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is expected you should want to and enjoy it. Sex should not be a chore. I have been married for 12 yrs and never to tired or stressed for sex. I think you may not be so happy in your relationship.
2007-01-26 17:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by kimjoey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"People" don't think that; most people are surprisingly reasonable. Sounds l ike your husband thinks that, but he is hardly "people". If you feel that you can't accept your partner's demands for 24/7 sex, then don't marry this person - there's always a choice. Marry a person who is more laid back.
2007-01-26 17:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd love to have that problem! Think of the direct opposite! It's even WORSE! You want to be faithful to your spouse...and you live with the frustration of not getting it all the time!
2007-01-26 17:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the women is worried all the time she might need to get some help it might be a problem.
2007-01-26 17:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by miester44 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to have sex all day everyday, but give it to your man, not every hour, but every day or other day...
You may also want to give an extra hug, kiss, i love you each day and show a little more affection. You need to have respect for your husband and he needs to know that you appreciate him. I can guarantee if you give, you will receive.
When you're married and have kids, it's never about YOU anymore. No more me, me, me...Quit being so damn selfish!!! Grow up!
2007-01-26 17:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If it's not there, he/she will cheat eventually. But no, who ever said the 24/7 thing has lost his/her mind.
2007-01-26 17:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by Gasman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man will go else where if he doesnt get it
2007-01-26 17:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is impossible and nobody thinks that way and it would probably kill ya
2007-01-26 17:21:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋