we met in step. at the fair and she moved in frist of nov. and now on the 25th and 26 of every month she gets violet and tries to kill her self and tries to hurt me my mom and dad dont see this my me and my boy friend do cause she lives in our room and she needs help but i dont know what to do cause after the 25th and 26th she is back to normal and is happy go lucky what should i do to help her?
2007-01-26 09:07:10 · 8 answers · asked by jeffrey' s lil angel 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
start w/ telling your parents, they can help you get help for her. and then call a suicide crisis hotline they can tell you what to do and who else to call. good luck.
2007-01-26 09:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if your friend is traumatized by the event. Possibly post traumatic stres disorder and the anniversaryis a serious trigger....im not doctor but i am a nurse and i would have a serious talk with her and tell her she can go with you to get her some help or youll have to let your parents or hers (and where are they?) know what is going on....she might get angry with you but id rather have an angry friend than a dead one....btw....my best friend is dead....i made a mistake...i did not stand up to her for what she was doing....she eventually died because i just ignored the problem?
2007-01-26 09:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lyn T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first, i will completely relate to the place you're coming from. you're a splash insecure, yet on a similar time you comprehend which you're a exceedingly superb individual, and you're able to completely date your self, spectacular? yet you're additionally your best critic. I advise, for sure you comprehend you at the instant are not morbidly obese, yet you at the instant are not as skinny as you like. i'm a similar way. i like nutrition, and that i won't be in a position of truly supply that up. besides, what are you doing along with your existence spectacular now? Are you at school or pursuing the performing factor? do no longer difficulty concerning to the intercourse factor. i became variety of a similar way.. .i do no longer even like seeing people kiss. yet i think of you will discover that that's style of different in case you're in that place. basically take it gradual. it is not comparable to you're predicted to easily leap into mattress with somebody. bypass via the bases as you experience mushy. additionally, being below the effect of alcohol facilitates. that's a stable thank you to get some adventure. besides the certainty which you're able to variety of want your first kiss to be something greater particular. and you do no longer decide to diminish your standards. You sound like a cool lady and that i'm particular which you've gotten various possibilities. i'm in user-friendly terms like a 12 months older than you. And a 12 months in the past i became like almost on a similar web site as you, yet issues substitute. you're getting previous and new possibilities will deliver you up. do no longer enable your loved ones deliver you down. additionally, boys are stupid, so truly do no longer take them too heavily. additionally enable me aid you comprehend one factor... under no circumstances speaking your techniques or expressing your emotions isn't selfless... it is not stable. you need to share your emotions with people... along with your associates. they are going to be satisfied that may well be useful you. stable luck with each little thing
2016-11-27 20:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw the ****** out. My wife passed away just over a year ago, and we have hree small children. I don't go around using it as an exuse to try hurt people. She's crazy, If she really wanted to kill herself she would have already. Nobody an stop someone if they really wanted to kill themselves. She's just doing it for attention. Tell her if she continues to act like that she'll have to leave or you can contact your state health officials and have her checked out for mental problems.
Or You can send her my way. I'm Single.lol
2007-01-26 09:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by Winnipeg76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband died 10 years ago and i still miss him, but I've been able to move on because I know he wouldn't want me to live like that. I'm getting married in June, but he is will always always be the one.
2007-01-26 09:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that isnt good, being that violent for such a short period of time and magically fixing, then re-happens? She needs professional help to deal with the loss.
2007-01-26 09:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If whe is still upset.Whenever the subject comes up change it.Hang out and jsut have fun.Once she finds someone new she'll soon get over him.
2007-01-26 09:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by darejellicleprima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is kinda sad. ummm.. the best advice i give you is to leave her alone on her "dates" she reallllllly liked this person and she never got a chance to spend her life with him. When she is normal let her see a psyciatrist
2007-01-26 09:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by SuWizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋