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i want to have a baby but the only problem is i don't have a boyfriend and i don't want to adopt, i want to have it NOW!
please help..i don't know what to do.

Thank you, Bumpbaldie.

2007-01-26 08:59:07 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

16 answers

get a puppy

2007-01-26 09:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You should really think twice. It's hard enough to raise a child with two parents. If you don't make 40k or more then you will struggle. Do you know that child care alone costs $150.00 a week. that's $600.00 a month. Thats more than some people pay in rent or car payments. Then who's gonna help you the first year when the baby is up and down every 2 to 3 hours and you have to get up and go to work. Sure you can do it for a while but after 10 or 11 months of doing it, your gonna be crazy! These are the things you need to think about. Think about the child not just yourself.

2007-01-26 17:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by cinnycinda 4 · 0 0

How old are you? Is there a reason that you want a baby NOW? Do you have a steady income? A baby is a huge responsibility and parenthood is not to be entered into lightly. You should wait, not just for a boyfriend, but for marriage, and make sure you have both agreed on starting a family before you try to get pregnant. Until then, get a dog or a cat.

2007-01-26 17:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by greensock 5 · 1 0

Babies aren't toys! you do know that they grow up and become teenagers and then the trouble starts! so I think you should think about this real careful and maybe find someone you could start a loving family to bring the child up. some support for each other, because children are hard work. you;ll be tired all the time and you'll have no time for yourself. Kids are great but they are always wanting something from you. so you have to be strong. Don't bring a child into this miserable world without thinking about what you have to offer them and what you are able to give them.

2007-01-26 17:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by Dreamangel 4 · 0 0

I really think you should wait until you find the right man, How old are you? Taking care of a baby is a LOT of responsibilty. Have you asked yourself this... Are financially stabled? Do you have good job and all that? I mean seriously being a single mom is really hard. You need to be prepard for it. You really should think things through before making a huge desicion. Its a lot of work. I have no kids but i have babysitted and I know its not easy raising kids! It's expensive and lots of work.

2007-01-26 17:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by Crikie 2 · 0 0

Try baby-sitting or volunteer at your local hospital and see if you can work near babies or with children. Babies are alot of work and to me your attitude sounds like you always get what you want.
You should be careful what you wish for. Baby-sitting other peoples children will be providing a service that will earn you money and the children get to go home at the end of the day. You may change your mind because you have to lose all your selfishness to be a parent.

2007-01-26 17:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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2007-01-26 18:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by Garnet A 1 · 0 0

Maybe you should try meditating. I heard that can get you pregnant. You should chill out and find a boyfriend, date for a couple years, get married, wait a couple years and then try to have a baby. But I guess that was just a fad at one time that has long since become extinct.

2007-01-26 17:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by MyOpinionMatters 4 · 0 0

well I know of something that u can do and it works get a guy to jaculate in a cup at the time of u are ovulatin for 3 days straight and go buy a turkey baster and insert it in u and prop ur legs up after wards for 20 min ull find urslef preg soon. good luck..EMAIL ME IF U WANT TO TALK PRIVATLY

2007-01-26 17:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_love45648 1 · 0 0

well, first try to find someone, find someone special in your life, go out and meet new people, and it will happen when the time is right hun, trust me, it will. and in the mean time, get on some pre natal vitamins, and they will help your body prepare for the baby. (yes you can take prenatal vitamins without being pregnant) but when you do get pregnant, make sure that you keep taking them every single day.

Good luck to you hun! hope i helped.

2007-01-26 17:13:56 · answer #10 · answered by hotty 5 · 0 0

If you're that impatient I dbout you're mature enough to deal with a baby. What are you doing to do one night when it's 2 am and the baby is screaming and you just want him or her to stop NOW so you can go back to sleep NOW?

2007-01-26 17:12:16 · answer #11 · answered by tabithap 4 · 0 0

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