My best guy friend we were in my bedroom laying on the bed watching tv. And he jumped on top of me and said you know you want to do me so bad... and i was like noo what are u doing! (like i like more then then a friend but i would never do him). He touched my brest and started to unbutton my shirt but i pushed hin off and i said no.dont.we are too young,. (14). And he said sorry. Should i trust him??I didnt mind it but having it go further then just hugging is wrong.
2007-01-26 08:52:50 · 14 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell him no means no!dont give in to his hormones...youll know when the time is right for you!
2007-01-26 09:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly my dear he is having a RAGE of hormones right now. And I'm Proud of you for stopping him, NEVER let anyone take advantage of you - regardless of hurting their feelings & don't move forward until your ready - which should be awhile from now.
I would make sure there is some distance between you when hanging out or make sure you have friends around until you feel more comfortable. If you still have some concerns, you might mention to him, I'm sure you didn't mean to frighten me the other day and your still my pal but I really am not ready for anything further yet... OK? If he agrees - cool, if not Find another friend to hang with til he matures. Growning up is hard I know, but Practicing sticking with your GUT instincts and Beliefs and not being swayed by others and you'll make it through
2007-01-26 17:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing! Good job!!! Apparently you know yourself well and what you are ready for and what you are not! Applause!! I hope that my daughter has the same morals that you have attributed to this situation. I would say that you'd probably want to avoid being in an intimate setting with him. He may have just been joking but the trying to take your shirt off and touching your chest doesn't work for me. Try talking to him first, but if he's still on his pervo kick, you can do better girl. But just a piece of advice - boys are like this at 14. So you may wanna just keep all boys off of your bed until your a bit older and understand what's on a boy's mind. Right now - SEX SEX SEX! So just remember that and stand your ground!! I'm so proud right now and I don't even know you! Keep it up girl!!!
2007-01-26 17:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! bad answer from the person before.. dont do anything until you are ready, whether it be 16, 18, 21, 25! its my suggestion to wait, you dont want to have a baby at 14 do you? or some guy running around spreading the word that you slept with him? wait. trust me. be in a loving, real relationship, and at 14, its not possible. many men will come and go before you find someone you spend your life with, sleep with them all, and then how will the man you decide to love forever feel? right. not very special.
2007-01-26 17:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by Burn to Shine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your life and what you do is your decision. But, I'd say that losing your virginity at 14 is too young. Once you start having sex, you really don't stop. And especially it's not a good idea to have sex with lots and lots of people...with all the STDs out there. He sounds like a jerk to me. Get rid of him.
2007-01-26 17:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by Helena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haley..... I just don't know what else to say other than what were you doing in bed with a guy at 14? Do you know the hormones that are jumping through his veins at that age?
2007-01-26 17:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good job for doing the right thing. Never do anything until you are ready. If you think you are ready now, then I don't recommend it, but it is up to you. If you are ready in twenty years, then that is when you will do it. It is up to you and only you. Do the right thing! If you think you are ready then make sure you always use protection like condoms and birth control.
2007-01-26 17:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did what he did to see what you would do!
2007-01-26 17:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't give him another chance. You shouldn't be alone with a boy in the first place because of your age. You should also tell your parents. They will be proud of you for saying NO.
2007-01-26 17:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by robinc1117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrestle all of da boy who do dat to you! i can;t believe young People is doing dis!
2007-01-26 17:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by DaRkAngeL XIII 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wanted to come on to you and got scared freaked out and panicked.
2007-01-26 17:04:45 · answer #11 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋