My 22 year old sister was being an @sshole to me and i retorted back. My mom didnt like what i said so she smacked me twice on the face and once on the back. Im so mad I want to smack her so bad. Show her what if feels like. Shes like your grounded your not going to the mall. I don't care if I have to sneak out I'm going. I hate my mom so much. You have no clue. I got so mad I trashed my room. My 22 year old sister was egging me on too. She comes in and is like now your really grounded. I was like I'm going to clean it up and I'm going. Shes like no you aren't. I hate my mom so so much.
2007-01-26 08:47:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Yeah I'm 15
2007-01-26 09:04:34 · update #1
how old are you sweetie? teenage life is hard and it seems like no one understands you. your sister should but out. it does not help and mom should not of hit you. but do not do anything that is going to jepordize your relationship anymore then what it already is. as much as you do not want to hear this you need to stay home or it will get worse. two wrongs do not make a right. as much as you say you hate your mom that word is straong and deep down inside you know that your mom loves you and in the end she is the one there for you. take it easy and let it blow over you will see she and your sister will come around.
2007-01-26 08:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by tammy_martin22 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
With so many women in the same house, estrogen levels (and drama levels) can get pretty high. It sounds like your mom and sister were both being pretty mean to you, and the best advise I can give is to not let it get to you. Seriously, my mom drove me nuts when I was a teen, but if you'll just be polite and not yell or do anything immature, it'll get easier to get along and she'll respect you more. You just have to respect her as well. She's done a lot for you over the years, including giving you life, but maybe she just doesn't know how to communicate with you now that you're growing up. Don't hate her. She loves you, no matter how she's acting right now. I promise that when you go off to college and move out of the house, she'll see you as more of an adult and you'll see her as more of a friend. Just hang in there.
2007-01-26 08:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by grayhare 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I see the same thing with my friends two girls because her 12year old always picks on her 10year old telling her that she's fat and picks on her about the thing she wears like Bobby Jack and it never ends. But I can tell you the same thing I told her 10 year old she may get away with it now but there's going to be a day where your sister is going to need your help and when that day comes don't be shocked.
I know right now you have it rough but it will all pass over you. Just what ever you do hold your head high and I now it's not a fun thing to do but try your best to not let you sister get to you because that's what she wants why else do you think se would do that to you. I know it's not easy being the youngest I myself have two older brothers and it always seemed like they got away with more than I ever could.
Well, just don't let something like that bring you down to much your still young and you still have a great chance to do something with your life and make something of yourself. So try to keep your head up above the water and don't let your sister bring you down under the water ok.
2007-01-26 13:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by JG78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, you need to calm down. Your mom smacked you twice in the face and once on the back, so now you suddenly hate her? Um, I'm sorry that you're grounded and I'm sorry that you were physically corrected somewhere other than your behind, but please- that is ridiculous. There are people out there who are verbally/physically abused and neglected by their parents every day, which causes them to do drugs and hurt themselves in the long run.
I understand that your older sister was egging you on, but let's face it- you don't hate your mom. You're mad at her for the time being for raising a hand at you, but who are you truly angry at? Your sister, right? Well- guess what, it's second nature for siblings to get in nasty fights.
Bottom line, calm down. Don't jump up and say that you hate your mom. That, in itself, is overreacting.
2007-01-26 12:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by Misswhatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is not always fair. I have like three younger siblings and one of them are twins and I do that to them all the time. But really when you think about it after some time you would realize that not going to the "mall" once isn't a big deal. Your mom grounded you because she knows what is right for you. She doesn't really hate you she just wants the best for you. And you don't hate you just dislike her at the time. Don't sneak out it will do you worse.
~ Kristin ♥
2007-01-26 09:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't be jealous of your older sister. Just be the mature one. THE BIGGER one! I'm the same age as her, but I don't see why anyone 22 or older would want to provoke a fight between another family member, unless she was immature. Just be the bigger person, and being a bigger person does not include sneaking out to the mall with your friends. you're trying to get on her good side right?
2007-01-26 10:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by starz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My mum was the worst b**** that walked the earth. I felt alone and mad like real mad. You need to chill out, sounds like your sister likes to cause hassel for you. Try not to kick off honey, rise above it, then you can go out all the time.
Find some music you really like when your getting p!ssed, get the headphones on and relax. Music is a great hormone soother.
Please don't sneak out, if you get caught you will be in even longer. Take care.
2007-01-26 09:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by bambam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT hate your mother for doing her job - being a parent!
You need help in controlling your anger, learn respect and do NOT sneak out (that's extremely childish)! You need to grow up!
You need to sit down with your mom, and sister, and have a good long discussion about your feelings. No one will understand what you're going through if you don't open up your mouth and say something.
2007-01-26 09:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Guess what? YOU ARE UNGRATEFUL. you can't go to the mall. SO SAD. They're open EVERY DAY! Don't be mad that she disciplined you. She probably disciplined your sister, too. If she didn't, she should have. But it's too late now. Sorry to say it this way, but you'll need to get over it. If she beat you so badly, call the cops next time. You don't have it bad. Please be thankful for what you have. I know I sound sarcastic. I'm serious, though. If it gets bad enough that you or anyone get smacked, WALK AWAY.
2007-01-26 09:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by Busta 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Life always seems unfair when you're a teen getting punished by your Mother.
I love my Mom, even though she grounds me and doesn't let me do everything I want. She sets boundaries for me so I don't go wild!!
And sometimes it seems like my Mom favors my other siblings over me, but there's nothing I can do about it but behave and still love her no matter what.
I'm sorry you got hit, she really shouldn't have done that at all.
-Danny
2007-01-26 09:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by Danny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋