Scorpio issues...help!!!?

Question

Hi All,

I have been dating a gorgeous scorpio man for 6 months. He's smart, athletic and ownes 2 companies. He's successful and works very hard. Because of his work related commitments, we only see each other a couples times a week. He told me he loved me in December, 2006. I was shocked but in truth, I had been feeling it for a long time. I just waited to see if he felt the same for me. The issue is eventhough he's said he loved me, there is no talk of anything else. I'm not really sure where I stand with him. I'm a Leo and want to give, give, give...but he doesn't want it and I don't get that. I want to know him better and reveal myself to him but I don't know how to tell him or approach him. He's had a rough past and has not been treated well by others. I adore and care for him deeply but I have to know if we feel the same for each other. I'm afraid to become anymore attached to him than what I already am.
PLEASE RESPOND!

Answer 1

Hi, I'm a 48 year old Scorpio and understand your confusion. my wife is a Taurus and kind of has the same problems. She loves to mother me, but Scorpios are very independent. It sounds to me more like something in his past is the problem rather than personality traits of astrology. The best thing I can tell you are Scorpios are extremely loyal and protective. He will run through walls for you. Just be patient and he'll open up. Good Luck. Peace.

Answer 2

Oh, my dear. I'm a Scorpio man and the one thing I can say is that he is probably a very, very proud individual. I've been in a relationship with my lady for thirteen years (who's also a Leo) and I live to do for myself. His rough past probably has made a strong minded individual. The one thing that you can try is to gain his trust in you. I trust my lady to the fullest! Try to see if he will come up with some nice get-away time for the both of you. Don't be too pushy. Everything should fall into place (for the time being). Take Care.

Answer 3

Scorpios will not feel the need to boast about what they do for you. His past experiences must have been because he was cold outside but very warm hearted inside and people were jealous of him and his abilities and put him down. Remember,Scorpios are known to be jealous but it is a fact that many other signs envy them so they retaliate and put their own emotion on them so that their trait of jealousy towards them comes on them even if they are not the envious type. And it happens with scorpios mainly,when they are great and envied , people take advantage of the fact tht scorpios are known for jealousy and put it on them. I sometimes feel that some people who were jealous of them perpously made sure scorpions are known for that..
But what makes scorpions great,they don't let others get to them and thats one of the reasons why they reach the mountains. :D People regret ever putting them down or anything then..



anyhows..he won't reveal himself to you and if you just cuddle uo with him while he watched tv or softly back hug him or something..he will know you are in love with him the way he loves you.. As a leo,show him that you will not hear a word against him cuz you leo people are great with defendign those you love ;) If you make your scorpio feel secure that you are there to back him,he won't want anything more and ofcourse, occasional hugs,cuddles and all :D

Each and every sign is very special and great in its own unique way. Leo and Scorpios can have alot of understanding and feel secure.

Answer 4

I'm a Scorpio female and I married a Leo male... we are very secretive and stubborn people who tend to hide our feelings, but once we're in love, we're in love and it in for the long haul. If he told you he loves you he meant it, all you have to do is just continue being yourself. If you want to shower him with love and affection do that, we like it... it may not show, but, we do. You've already gotten past the hardest part, and that is knowing if he loved you or not. He said he does, so don't doubt that he doesn't... Scorpios hardly ever say what they don't mean. We just aren't as outward with our feelings of affection. Besides, it's still January and he just told you in December... he'll tell you again and show you in many more ways... I've dated Scorpio men and they are very romantic, as Scorpios can be. Good luck.

Answer 5

hehe yep! I meet lots of scorpios everywhere. & Aquarius. I love both, although both signs to me have their extremes. Either can be great or less compatible with your mood if too passive or the opposite too aggressive. I'm a scorpio but on cusp, so feel more like a sag lol

Answer 6

wow..
LEO AND SCORPIO There's immediate sexual fascination with each other. But Leo finds it hard to cope with Scorpio's jealousy and possessiveness. Intense, smoldering Scorpio is on a too-short fuse, while Leo is much more buoyant. Leo thinks Scorpio difficult and temperamental; Scorpio considers Leo pretentious and a show-off. Scorpio doesn't understand Leo's need to be continually surrounded by an admiring audience. Scorpio would rather dominate than admire, and that doesn't suit Leo's kingly state. Sex isn't everything.

Answer 7

Hello sweetie. I feel that one shouldn't just leave one person if you love him. I mean, when you really get to love somebody it's not casual but it's a recognition of your whole being of that person as someone who is compatible with you in a spiritual and mental aspect. Me think so. ;)

I'm a scorpio woman and understand well scorpio men and women. You shouldn't just hold to astrology to get to know a person, but really the sun-sign is indeed a good clue. We scorpios, although we may not be really showing our personality that way, are all intense in our feelings. We also want to hold the control of the relationship, that is that we want to feel that the other person loves us intensely. We want respect, and also almost every scorpio may connect very deeply through sex and long for that kind of connection with our partner.

Scorpios are demanding and should be very giving too. We understand very well -more than other signs as a rule- the psychology of people.

Personally I love humankind and every person, and I don't try or not even care about taking advantage of that intuitive understanding of how to control others' people feelings because of my spiritual convictions, but if I didn't have a high morality and true love and desire of honesty in all my interactions, and I were more selfish, I could do any man do whatever I wanted and love me unilaterally. But even then I think that a scorpio would become involved with that kind of relationship.

At this moment of my life I express my feelings, but I used no to do it before. So... he may love you but not be the kind to go saying it, or he may be playing games because he cares about your love and wants you to become more attached to him.

Now, this is important, besides being a scorpio, he's a man, and if you both are adult -as it seems for the 2 companies you mention- and are going out as couple for some time you may open un your feelings and tell him how you feel. Obsessive relationships where noone knows where they stand with the other may be thrilling but not what gives your heart what it needs. You'll see if he cares about your feelings that he should respect.

After that, give him some time. If you want to get married (which is what us girls usually call the progress of a relationship and the confirmation that a man loves you enough) and after months of dating he hasn't talked about it, don't be a fool with a shut mouth, tell him that you love him and would want to share your life with him.

Now, if after all that you have showed him you love him and if he doesn't respond to it, he may not love you enough. Then you must leave him. Try to go on with your life and kind of wait for him for no more than 4 months. That is more than enough time. Really, a man who cares, I tell you by experience, never disappears for more than than some months.

Men, all of them, miss a person they really loved when they think they are losing her. So if even leaving him doesn't work, you can be sure he didn't ever loved you enough. Say bye in your heart, because scorpios are so magnetic and hard to leave, but if a scorpio has said good bye in his heart, he will do it definitely and he can easily find a mate if he's young enough.

Well my friend that's a long story, but I tell you in advance all the things that could get to happen and what you should do. I know by instinct and the painful experiences and also successes with the menzzz in my life.

Besides really, as the other answerers have noted scorpios aren't uncaring but just the opposite. Unless resented we may be extremely giving. And the point about independence may be true in your case.

Well, that was to make a long story long...

Clara

Answer 8

i agree with the last 2 answers.....just chill for a bit...leos do tend to "mother" their men....thats because we are so giving and want only the best for the one we love.....they take it the wrong way.! we want things to move faster than they do too.....just be your wonderful self. .let him grow to appreciate you and it will work out just fine! good luck

Answer 9

with scorpios... the answer is always sex.
takes one to know one. ;)