That is bizarre...why doesn't that woman have her own place? Sounds like your MIL wants the ex to stick around and you to get lost. I'd start having some serious discussions with your husband about what goes on when he's there and why this is the arrangement.
2007-01-26 08:05:23
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answered by Lake Lover 6
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whatever you do "DO NOT" come between the relationship with him and his daughter. Go with him or ask him to bring his daughter back to your house. You know if his ex lives with his parents he might be there just to visit his family. You can't ask him to not visit his family. You are in a no win situation. She is a ex for a reason just think if he DID still want her she would not be a ex he would be with her not YOU so stop being insecure he's with YOU.
2007-01-26 08:00:19
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answered by ally'smom 5
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he spends too much time at HIS parents visiting HIS daughters and you are making an issue of it. so his ex lives there too, doesn't mean he is seeing her. if you have that big of a problem w/ it why not discuss it w/ him. tell him that you would like to go w/ or why doesn't he bring them to your house for their visits??? Actually, I'm trying to understand why she lives at his parents house in the first place???
2007-01-26 09:25:57
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answered by Anonymous
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She obviously has really LOW self esteem if she is till worried about you...your ex probably does still have feeling about you and she probably knows it...therefore making her self conciousness rise and her green monster come out. Ignore it. That's all you can do. She wont stop...and if you retaliate in any way you'll just end up looking as bad, and crazy, as her. Kill her with kindness! If you are mean it just gives her something to feed off of. Good luck though! I hope she can grow up and get over it soon!
2016-05-24 02:46:42
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answered by Anonymous
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How can you say he spends too much time at your in laws house. He is seeing his children who live there also, you cannot put a time restraint on him visiting his children. Why didn't you question how long she was going to live with your in laws when before you married him. Relax and don't interfere with the children's visitation schedule.
2007-01-26 08:12:22
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answered by Premo Mom 5
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There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with your husband spending time with his children. Obviously his EX wife is just that, his EX. They do share children in common and will have contact with each other for the rest of their lives. You knew he had children and an EX before you married him. Stop being judgmental and selfish and let him spend as much time as he wants with his kids!
2007-01-26 08:01:35
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answered by Starla_C 7
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That is a tuff case.
Do you trust your husband ? trust is was relationships are build on. i have 2 suggestions
1- Ask your questions to your husband directly (in a nice way) explain to him that you get worried? and try to work out with him a way to solve it.
2- if you are afraid of talking with him, just go with him and see how is that relationship is going . maybe you can either kill that bad feeling you have right now.
2007-01-26 08:01:00
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answered by Steel Solie 1
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Thats just weird. The ex should so get her own place. IS this her way of trying to get back w/ him or something? She really has no reason to be there anymore. You should definetly go over there w/ him since they are your family too. You should just pretend it doesnt bother you because if you make a big deal about it he probably wont want you visiting them w/ him.
2007-01-26 08:01:47
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answered by ~chopperwon~ 3
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The best thing you can do to put your mind at ease is go with him. Get involved and try to be friends. One day you might have a child with him and you will too have to bring your children to visit their grandparents. Good luck!
2007-01-26 08:05:15
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answered by HereweGO 5
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Not enough info to understand why ex lives there. Also its his parents home and that's where his daughters live so what do you expect.
2007-01-26 08:06:27
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answered by Michael K 4
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