My wife has recently started talking to some guy on yahoo messenger, She claims their just friends but refuses to delete him and says she can talk to anyone she wants... Do you think i have a reason to be worried?
2007-01-26 07:36:13 · 10 answers · asked by dragonmaster9970 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Also She Has Already Ran Of Once With A Yahoo Buddy And Returned 4 Days Later
2007-01-26 07:56:23 · update #1
Yes, because your wife doesn't respect you. She should've said ok, when you told her it bothered you, and deleted him.
2007-01-26 07:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do have a reason to be worried. But not about her! You should be worried about your trust issues! This is all on you dude, sorry! Listen, I have allot of great friends from around the world. I collect interesting people! On line that is! Half are of the opposite sex and at least 10 are of the opposite sex and the same age group! I get the occasional woman that wants more in the lines of an affair at least once a week. I'm happily married and won't even go there. It's too easy to block these people. My wife sees everything I do, I make it a habit to tell her any interesting comments my pen pals make. Plus she has access to my password and anything else she requests. If your wife doesn't want to let you see what she is typing then you may have a problem, but don't ask her to rid herself of friends all in the name of distrust! This guy may be getting some great advice from her.
2007-01-26 15:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do!! Get that crap nipped in the bud, or your marriage is doomed, it don't matter if she is physically with the dude or not, it is a lack of respect, and is not an open and honest relationship between you two.
I am so sorry
PS: looked at your 360, pretty strange, very dark, perhaps lighten up, your wife might need some sunshine from you.
2007-01-26 15:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a lady's perspective most of my yahoo friends are exactly that. Talking should not be a problem, but if she begins to ignore other responsibilities or trys to hide it from you then I would begin to worry.
2007-01-26 15:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Li Li 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if they are being intimate...but then again you might never know if she won't let you on her messenger...If shes acting like she gots something to hide then thats probably cause shes doing something she shouldn't be doing.good luck.
2007-01-26 15:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by ღCCღ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No....you are here aren't you...not much different.
None the less people deserve to have friends regardless of the sex of that person.
2007-01-26 15:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..
Very worried..
Stop her..
She is a cheater and looking for a partner...
If she is like this..
You may want to just divorce her...
2007-01-26 16:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all she is doing is chatting with them and she is not doing anything else to make you worry, what is the problem. My hubby chats with other women and I chat with other men. No big deal
2007-01-26 15:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
check her chat log. it should have the saved conversation.
2007-01-26 15:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do unto others as they do unto you.
2007-01-26 15:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by aubreytaegan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋