we are fine its not happening I am so fustrated I will start my 2nd month of clomid to just help me ovulate more as Dr. stated.any one have suggestion . thanks
2007-01-26 07:30:55 · 9 answers · asked by gg 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You all answers are great thank you I can't vote for one over other.
2007-01-26 11:39:52 · update #1
You are trying to hard!! That happened to us!! I took us over 2 years, and we went everywhere and did everything!! we stop enjoying having sex, because we were only doing it to conceive and it was a pain to find that negative hpt every end of the month!! The day I gave up on trying and start enjoying making love with my husband again just to be with him and not to become pregnant!! I got pregnant with no medication, surgeries or anything and had a beautiful and healthy (thanks God for that)little girl that is going to be 2 years old!! Also I am currently pregnant 6 weeks!! without trying!! So, you need to relax and let it happen!! GOOD LUCK and HOPE PRETTY SOON you will have a beautiful and healthy pregnancy!!
2007-01-26 07:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by Raquel_02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went thru the very same thing, i feel for ya, really i do.
I would suggest maybe taking a few months & not "trying", just relax, stop stressing about it, (b/c the stress itself serves as a barrier between you & your goal of becoming pregnent.) Also, make certain that you & your hubby are both eating healthy, as this helps to ensure that his sperm are as healthy as possible. (I'm sure you've probably tried this), but elevate your hips during intimacy & remain in this position with your pelvic region elevated for 15minutes afterward. You can also use an ovulation test (which you can pick up at any discount store:walmart,cvs, etc), this will alert you as to your most fertile time, so that you can allow his sperm to collect by not overdoing it during "unfertile times". The absolute best thing to do is try to stop stressing, this is a BIGGIE.....
GOOD LUCK ....
2007-01-26 07:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by rjsluvbug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how hard it is. I tried for 2.5 yrs then I ended up pregnant. If you want a baby bad enough you will continue. We are trying for our 2nd child and now its been 7 months and I do not ovulate at all now and I am going to have to try medications.
BTW I had endometriosis and I have had 2 surgerys to get rid of as much as possible. Now I have hyperprolactinemia which is why I don't ovulate. But we keep trying, and we will.
Its so stressful though and heart breaking when you get your period month after month, Good luck. If you need someone to vent to email me.
2007-01-26 07:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-26 08:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 02:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by marconi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your spouse get checked also whether he can have children also? I felt I would be taking things too far by having my second husband tested also. My ex-husband had mumps and felt he could not have any children, I decided to let things go because I did not want him to feel inferior (I did not get him tested).
The problems I had I had ripped internally on my first child and had 28 internal stitches from my first relationship with my daugther's biological father. I always said I would have my children by the decade, couldn't even do that.
I understand the emotional roller coaster drain you go through.
I would suggest that you get a project going - I landscaped and went into politics, boy you can get lots done and you won't be thinking too much about a baby at all after awhile.
Adopt a baby or go to the orphanage like Brad Pitt and Angela Jolie.
2007-01-26 07:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've heard of lots of couple conceiving after they stop trying so hard. It's not unusual for adopting couples to suddenly find that they're pregnant. Some fertility specialists just recommend a sea cruise somewhere. Stress can apparently play a part
Frustrating, isn't it, when so many people get pregnant without even wanting to!
2007-01-26 07:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and relax. It will happen, sometimes it just takes longer. Give yourself at least 12 tries (12 months) before worrying. Relax, I know that's easier said than done, but it'll happen. Good luck!
2007-01-26 07:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by godiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you having sex on your fertile days? Do you know when you ovulate? don't give up sometimes it just takes time
2007-01-26 07:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by ker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋